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jiaruyigenanrenqueshishuoaiwo，dangranhuigaoqingchuwodebixu，erqieganxinqingyuanweiwofuwu，huazhenqingganshizhenshijia？jijijiyuwoshiyong，yagenbuxuyaowozhangkou。”

nvxingjingchangrenweizishenbuyongjijixiangnanshengtichuyaoqiu，youyuzuoweinvxing，tamenkeyongpanduanlirenzhitarendebixu，erqieganxinqingyuandetouru。

tebieshizai，dangnvrenaishangyigenanshengshi，tahuibennengfanyingdiweinanshengjijitouruzishendaliangdeai，xiangnanshengchushiyouyiyideshideshiyong。

bingqietaaideyuezhang，bianhuijideyueda。

tashinvxingzhenduiganqingdexintaiheguize。yiner，tamenyurenweishan，zhuguanyiduandijuedenanshengyehuineiyangzuo。

youshi，naizhiyouyimeiquyaoqiu，weicijiancenanshengshibushiqueshiaita。

zainvxingdeyanzhong，jinyounanshengweijingqingqiujiunengyiyanjiandaotadebixu，bingqiewusifengxian、ganxinqingyuandiweitafuwu，caisuanzhenshiaita。

dan，zheiyiganqingguizebingbushiganyongyinansheng。

 nanshengdesiweishishenme?chedidepingxingxianluojisiwei。tamenfeichangshaohuizifaxingdijijizuoyixieshier，erzongshizaibeibierenyaoqiuhuoguidingshi，caihuifuzhushijian。

lingwai，nanshengyehuishenxianyigecuowuguannian：

tamenjuedenvxingwangwangxiangyaozaicitouru，yidingshiyouyuzishenjideaizaoyikaolvtadebixu，jindaoxuyoudeyiwule。

tameiyouyishidaonvxingyizhizaidengdaitadeganenhuikui。

zheishihou，qingganbianhuichuxiannanti：

zhongyouyitian，nvxingnanyirenshou，pobudeyijijizhangkoubiaoshuzishendeyaoqiu。

danlaidaocike，tazaoyikucunjiyaguoduoyuanhen，yuqitingshanglairutongzaijinansheng“xiazhiling”。

zheileiminglingjudezenghenyudiaohuibijiaoyanzhongyanlidajinanshengdezhudongxing，shitabuzijuediyaoxiangdiyu。

jishinanshengmeiyoudichu，laolaoshishi“lingming”zuoshi，qukaolvtadeyaoqiu，nvxingyiranburongyilingrenmanyi。

youyutaganjuebixuzishenjijizhangkoucainenggouhuodekaolvdeganqing，taiguodisanxiasi、weiquqiuquanle。

huazhenqingganshizhenshijia？danshinanhaihenvhailuojisiweizishenjiucunyouchabie。nibushuonanshengruhezhidaonizaixiangshenme?nimeitiguidingnanshengnaerlejiezishenruhezuocaikeyihuodenidehuanxini?

yinci ，jiarunimeiyouconglingyibanneibianhuodeyaoxiangdeganenhuikui，henzhongyaodeyuanguhenyoukenengjiushinitiguidingdefangfabudui。

yuehangeleizai《nanrenlaizihuoxing》yishuzhongyecengtiji：

yaoxiangrangnanshengganxinqingyuanjinifuwu，niwubi“jiji”qilai，youduicediweinanshengtichuyaoqiu。

怎么做呢?

jinrijianxindasaozijiujiaotangmeimen4ge“xiangnanshengtiguiding”dexiaojueji，rangjialinanshengduiniguaiguaitinghua!

1、找准适当的机会

jiarunanshengzhengzhunbeijinibanshishi，niyejiuwuxuzaitichuyaoqiu，duociyijuzongshibahaoshierbianweicuoshi。

liru，nanshengbenjiuzhunbeiqushuawan，niyejiuwuxugaosuta：“ninengbunengbawangankuaixile?”

neiyangnanshengfandaohuizaochengqingchunqipanni，youyutaganjueniyizhizaizeguaita。

2、防止命令句语调

tiguidingbingbingbushixiazhiling。

jiaruniyizhidaizhu“minglingjudezenghenyudiao”mingquetichuyaoqiu，wulunnideyuyanjigoudeduomehao，nanshengdoushihuiganjuenibingbuhaowuyiwenherentongtadetouru。

yinciburongyifuzhushijian。

3、quelidemingquetichulijiguiding

xuduo qingkuangxia，tangmeimenganjuezishenzaoyimingquetichuleguiding，danshishishangjinjinmingquetichulenantibale。

dajiamingquetichudejinjinjianjiexingdeanshizhe(anshizhemouzhongshijiguiding，danqueburongyilijishuochulai)，erbushilijideguiding。

jianjiexinganshizhedeguiding，tongchangrangnanshengganjuenvxingduizishendeshiyongshizuolisuoyingdang，juebuganxie。

xiabianjuhaoduogeshili，laibiaoming“nvxingdejianjiexingyaoqiuhenanshenghenyoukenenghuichuxiandedafu”。

4、shaoyong“shifoukeyishi”，yaoyong“nenggou...ma”

zaitiguidingshi，zuipubiandebuzhengquezhiyibianshiyi“shifoukeyishi”neiyangdeyongyulaitidai“nenggou…ma”。

youyu“shifoukeyishi”，yifangmiantingqilaigenghaoxiangzaizhizeta，haoxiangtacuoguolenideqidai;lingyifangmianhaoxiangzaitichuzhiyitadegongzuonengli。

liru：“ninengbunengbawanjixile?”neiyangtichuyaoqiu，nanshengdediyifanyingbianshi：nenga，wozirannengle!dantaburongyishuo：keyia，woxi。

youyuzaitalaikan，tazirankeyibawanxile，nantidezhongyaobuqujueyutashibushiyougongzuonenglishuawan，erqujueyutashibushixiangyao。

jiaruhuangebiaoshu：“ninengbawanxilemeiyou?”neiyangtichuyaoqiu，nanshengcaihuijiangdibumanqingxu，yongxinkaolvdaoxubuxuyaofuzhushijian。

jiarutahuiying“keyia”，neimatahuiquzuodejilvjiudadadetigao，youyutazaoyizuochulefuwuchengnuo。

tangmeimenyaolejie“shifoukeyishi”yu“nengbuneng”zhongjiandequbie，hebuxiangxiangyigelanmandeqingjing：

yigenanrendanxiguidixiangnvxinglangmanqiuhun，maimaihanqingdewangzhenvxingdeshuangyan，qingshendijiangguoju：“ninengbunengzuowodexinniang?”

yishunjian，lanmandefenweiyibu。youyunanshengwenchu“shifoukeyishi”kanqilaitazhongqibuzu、queshaozixin，zaizheiyifenqingganzhongchuyubeidongdixia，naizhihaiyoudianercaozongkongzhideyuyi。

dan，jiarunanrenshuo：“nixiangyaozuowodexinniangma/ninengzuowodexinniangma”，biannenggengqiangdebatadexinxinyuxiwangchengxiandehanchanglinli。

dangnvxingwen“ninengbunengbawanxile”，nanshengdelejiebianshi“nikeyixi，jiuyingdangquxi，buran，woyebangnixile”。

neiyangtiguidingdefangfajiuhaoxiangzaicijixingta，kongzhita，huoshibatadefuwushizuolisuoyingdang，nanshengdangranhuipaichi。

yinci ，xiangbi“shifoukeyishi”，nanshenggengrongyirenke“nengbuneng”deyaoqiufangfa。

bawolezheizhongtiguidingdefangshihou，jiexiaqu，nixuyaomanmanrangnanshengxiguanjijizhudongdafunideguiding。

zheiyijieduandeguanjianjiuqujueyu，ganxieta、shangxita。

xuduo tangmeiyaoshuo，wolaitatouruneimeduo，taweiwobanshinandaoshuobingbushiyingdangdema?woyouhekubiaoshuganxie?

yaolejie，nanshengmeiyouganshoudaonideganxieyurentong，bianhuibuyouzizhudejiangdizijintouru。zheizhongshizirunnanshengdeyingyangwuzhi，shisuzaonanshengxiguanxingdequdongli。

tanlianaihehunyinshenghuobuyiyang。tanlianaishimeishangbaoxiandeganqing，erhunyinshenghuorutongshangshangyebaoxiandeganqing。

yiduiqinglvfeichangrongyihemuxiangchu，eryiduifuqiquejingchangyouyuyidiansuoshi，zhengzhidelianhongerchi。

xuduo qingkuangxia，bingbushibuailingyifangle，jinjindajiameiyouxuanzhunhunyinjingyingdeqiadangfangshi。