有被花镇骗过的吗？别问我为什么相亲不过是一场游戏

 youbeihuazhenpianguodema？jiranshidiyicijianmian，wubideyouchongzudexinyilaichengchang。eryouxinyidejiben，bianshidajiadaodizainaerpengmian。jianmiandechangdibudanhuiguanxidaoquanbuxiangqinyuehuiquanguochengdebenrenganshou，naizhinengweihaidaobenrenqingkuanghezuihoujieguo。neima，xuanzedizhiyoushenmeyaoliuyideni?

大气地明确提出自身的建议

 meigerendouyouzishenxiaideziranhuanjinghexihaodedizhi，zaishangtaoxiangqinhuodongmiandizhideqingkuangxia，yidingyaojinlianglijidebiaoshuzishenzhenduipengmianziranhuanjingdexuanzexing。jiusuanshizhenduijianmiandizhimeiyouguoshaodeguiding，huozhezishenjiujiaoweisatuo，yezuihaoshinengtizaoshuomingzishentaoyanhuodichudeziranhuanjing。

 neiyangzuodeyichuqujueyu，jinliangdedujuezishenbushihehuoshihuirangzishenjinghuangdeziranhuanjinghedizhi。zaiyigexiangduixingheshizishendeziranhuanjinglixiangqinyuehui，gengnengrangzishenweichiqingkuang，bingzhiliyuxiangqinyuehuizheijianshiqingzishen，weicilaitisheng xiangqinyuehuipinzhi。

决策权不是一个人的

 xiangqinyuehuishiliangrendeshiqing，juecequnaxiangqinyuehuiyewubishiliangrendeshiqing。youbeihuazhenpianguodema？zaiyongyoushangyitiaodejibenshang，jiusuanliangrenxiguanxingdeziranhuanjingbingbudatongyang，haikeyizheizuiheshidexuanzeyigejiaoweishihededizhi。bianyurangshuangfangdouchuzaiyigejiaoweishufudeqingkuang。

 jiarulingyifangdexintaishijiaoweisuibiande，huoshimeiyouchushiguoduojianyi，haikeyitizaozuogekecheng。biru：lianluojieshaorenlejieyixialingyifangdexihao、xingqingzheixie，weicilaizuoweicankaobiaozhun。bingtizaogaozhilingyifang，lejielingyifangdeguandian，ruzhaopinmianshishijianshibushishihe，ziranhuanjingshibushiokzheixie。neiyangbudangengxianzhongshi，yekeyijiaojizishendaliangkekongxingbiaozhun。

尽管人们能够根据語言相互了解，但视觉效果通常会提早给你作出分辨。自然，视觉效果并不仅包含衣着，还包含眼能够及的一切小表情、个人行为方法这些。因此 ，第一印象就看起来至关重要。

穿衣搭配是一面镜子

 suhuashuodehao：“foyaojinzhuangmakaoan。”yigerendechuanzhedabannenggoutixianchuxingqing、aihao、naizhixiguanyangchengzheixieguanjiandian。jinguanyifukuzibuhuiliaotian，dantaquewanquantixianchunishigeruhederen。

 jinguanrujinxiangqinyuehuijichuwuxuxizhuangbiting、gaogenxieqipaoqunle，keshi，zhongjiuyesuanzuoxuanbuchangsuo，zuihaoshihuanshinengquebaoyouxianzhudebenrentexingshejifengge。jinguanxinnianzheileishujiuhandongdeqingkuangxiajichuquanshiyurongyi，danwaitaodapeihuanshinenggouxiagongfude。

liru，nvshengkeyiyonggaotongxuetidaixuedixue，zaizaijiashangzhongdengshuipingzhangduandezhangqun，weicilaitigaoquanburendeqichang。

情况反映出真正

 meiyigerenquanshiyuzhongbutongde，meiyigerendoushiyoubuyiyangdexingqing。zaixiangqinyuehuiquanguochengzhong，chongzuchengxianzishendeyoudianheyoudian，shimeiyigerenbixujinxingdeyike。yinci ，xiangqinyuehuishidejingshenmianmaoshiyouweizhongyaode，jimindezhijue、yuanrundejingtouhexinxin，caisuanshidazhongdouxiaideqiantitiaojian。

别在礼仪知识上车翻

 wulundajiadexiangqinyuehuidizhishizaifandian、kafeitinghuobiedenaxiedifang，huimianshideliyizhishiyeshishifenguanjiande。liru：buzuodixiatouyizu、dangrandaqidebiaoshuheshishidifengquzheixie。zheibujinshiyizhangxingqinggerenmingpian，yeshixunsutigaoliangrenhaoganjinzhandefangfa。bingqie，zhenshiguanjiandexiangqinyuehuiliyizhishibianshiqianxin，jinyouzhiliyushixia，caikeyizhangwolingyifangdeyoushihexingqing，yecaikeyizhenduishibuyijinyibufazhanqushizuochuqiadangdefenbian。

如何让相亲约会越来越更趣味?

 jibenshangquanbucanjiaxiangqinyuehuideren，zuidanxin，yezuibuqidaijiandaode，bianshigaliao。dangyichangtinglanmandejianmian，bianweilewuxianqideganliao，rensheidouburongyishushi。neima，weilegenghaodifangzhidanghuatizhongjiezhe，womenyaoruheliaotianni?

01别聊前男友

 zaixiangqinyuehuideqingkuangxiadaliaoqiannanyoushizuibihuiyegengkuaigaliaodefangfale。shexiangyixia，ruguonizainanpengyouyanqianduiqiannanyoubutubukuaideqingkuangxia，lingyifangchukainengshuo“shiya，ena，zheiyanga”yiwai，hainengshuoshenmeni?

 bingqie，jiarudatanqiannanyou，wulunshishuonayigecengmian(jinguanbutaikenengshishuoyoushi)，doushihuiranglingyifangganjuenineixinhaichedimeiyouxuehuifangxiaqiannanyou。zheiyangyilai，jiusuannijuedelingyifangfeichanghao，lingyifangyehuianankaolvdaoshibushigennishihele。

别聊工作

 huoxunishimougongsideguanliceng，huoxunishimouchuchuanggongsideceo，huoxunishoudixiayoujishigeshangyefuwujingruishiniweichaojiouxiang，keshi，zheiquanshizaigongsihuanjingxiadezhenshishenfen。xiangqinyuehui，bingbushigongsiyuangonghuiyi，gengbingbushishangyefuwujingruizhuantijiangzuo。xiangqinyuehuideguanjianshiqujueyuliangrenxingqing、lianaiguandechupeng，meirenshikaoxiangqinyuehuizhaogegongzuode。

 youqishizheixieyitanchenggongyulujiuraowanzitingbulezuide，chukaijiakuaixiangqinyuehuiwanbifuqianhuijialedeguochengyiwai，meiyouyiqieshijixiaoguo。

多聊一聊日常生活兴趣爱好

 xiangqinyuehuidemudishisha?kendingshizhaoyigeshihederengongduyusheng。neiliangrencouzaiyiqidezuihouzhuiqiuwanmei，bubianshiyitongrichangshenghuome?zheigeshihou，liaoyiliaonidexihaohexiangwangshenghuoshizuiyouxiaode。yilai，nenggourangliangrendoushiyougengweishencengcidezhangwo;erlai，duoliaorichangshenghuoxingquaihao，haikeyicongcebianguanchachulingyifangduinidehenganxingqushuipingyouduoda，duinidexingqingheaihaoshishenmexintai。zheilianggefangmiandounengjuecezuizhongdexiangqinyuehuijieguofenbian。

还记得维持层次感

 chukaigailiaodehebuyinggailiaodeyiwai，haijideshishidirangzishen“bishangzui”。xuehaoshidudeweichicengcigan，bubazijichedipuluchuqu，yeshixiangqinyuehuidexiaoqiaomenzhiyi。budannenggourangjifalingyifanggengjiayaoxiangzhangwonidechongdong，haikeyiweiyihouhenyoukenengdejianmianchucuntanlunhuati。xuehaoliuyouzhinian，bugaliaoderen，caikeyixiangyouxiangqinyuehuidequanguocheng。

这些你需要留意的琐事

 renshuo：“taidujuedingchenggongyushibai。”xiangqinyuehuiyishiruci。youshiwulunnichuanzhedabandeduomehao、xingweijuzhiduodedang、xingqingduofengquyoumo，doushihuibeineimayilianggexiaoguanjiandianchedijibai。zheiliyou2jianxiaoshiniyaomingji。

学好控制时间

jinkenengbaxiangqinyuehuideshijiancaozongzai1~lianggezhongtouyinei。

 neimezuodeyuanguyouer：qiyi，jiaruxiangqinyuehuishijiantaizhang，chanshengganliaoexingshijiandegailvjiuyueda。weilegenghaodifangzhineiyangdenankan，kongzhishijianshizuilijidefangfa。

 qier，xuehaozaireqinggaozhangdeqingkuangxiawanbixiangqinyuehuiyeshiyizhongfangfa。jiufangfoyingpiandouxiaizaigaochaodieqiyihoulikemoweiyiyang，zailiangrendengxintaidoujiaoweihighshi，zhaoyigeshidudejiyuwanbicicijianmian，bianhuizailingyifangxinliliuyougengjiashenrudeyinxiang。xiangbipingpingdandanmowei，neiyanggengfeichangrongyiyinqixiayicidepengmian，yegengfeichangrongyibazhudaoquanbawozaizishenshoushang。

以诚相待是第一要务

 zaixiangqinyuehuideqingkuangxia，qingyidingquebaoyichengxiangdai。xiangqinyuehuizishenbianshigetanchengxiangjiandequanguocheng，biciyequanshiyijulingyifangdexingqing、sanguanhezhuyaobiaoxianlaizuochuzuizhongshibushijiaowangdejuece。neima，jiarunikaizhanleguoshaodemanbao，jishizuizhongliangrenbuweijiannanzaiyiqile，danninengjianjiandifajue，zheizhongbeimanbaochulaidewupinzuizhongdoubianchenglezhadan。