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qingganzixunbukentuikuantousuyouyongma？xianrujin，xuduo wenzhangneirongquanshizaijiaoni，zenyangzuoyigegengweichusedeairen。

keshiwoxiedebenwen，zeshizaitixingni。

zaiyutaren，youqishiyuxinaidenanhaizixiangchudeqingkuangxia，ruhejinliangfangzhirangtarenganjuenifawei?

zhangzheyouxiaopiaoliangzhuangaojiaode

zuixiannidelejie，yigegaopinzhidenansheng，zaiyunichupeng5miaoshangxia，jiunengfenbianchu，lizaitayanqiandezheiyinvxingruhe。

yiqianheyiqunpenyouquwan，youyigeshiyechenggongdenanxingpengyoulazhewo，qiaoqiaodegaosuwo：

“nidenagepenyoukanqilaizhenpiaoliang。”

我讲：

“ruhe，niyaoyaowoqianxiandaqiao?”

他说道：

 “wokemeiyou，haokanshihaokan，erwobingbuyuanaijinta。qingganzixunbukentuikuantousuyouyongma？nikankantatouquanshiwangshangtaide，shuangyanlibianquanshimiaoshizhezhoubianderen，aojiaodehen，renweizishenshidapaimingxinga。dapaimingxingyemeineimeaojiaoba。zongzhiwohaowuyiwenburongyixuantadangnvyou。”

wozheigepenyoushuodehenyoukenengyixiefukua，danwozheiweinvxingdequechangchangjiedaodedianpingshi“lengyanmeinvfan”。

woyebuzhidaotazhenduizishendezheiyidianpingshizenmexiangde，henyoukenengdaliangdeshibazheileidianpingzuoweiyizhongzanmeiba。

 dajiadelejie，jibian kanqilaizaihaokan，nizishizhizhongzhanshichuaojiao，nanshengyehuiganjuenihenwuliao，burongyidianjizheyaoquyunichuangjianzhangqixingguanlian。

nixiyinzhudaode，zongshishixiaibiaomiandeyixingpengyou，shuobailedexizhatizhijiuzheiyanglaide。

zuoweinvhai，youqishijuedezishentingpiaoliangdenvhai，yingdangduoquxiangyixiang，nideshenshangdaodinaxietexingxiyinzhulelingyifang?

jiaruzhishishihaokan，niyejiudezhuyile。nixuyaoxuehaoyongzhangqixingshiyongjiazhiquxiyinzhulingyifang。

liru，nizenmejilingyifangchushiqingxujiazhi?

yaoranglingyifangganshoudaochukairongmaochanshengdexinkuangshenyizhiwaidegaoxing，jiangdiaojiao。

ziran，bingbushijinijiejueaojiao。

shijijiaruzhangwozheiyidu，jiaruhenganxingqu，nenggoudianwenzhangneirongyouxiafangde【zaikan】genwoshuo。

有意找话题的

ruguonigenlingyifangxianliao，nixuyaofeijingquxiang，gaizhaoyigenaxiehuatixianliaoshi，baoqian，niliangleyibanle。

youyuxuduo ganliaobianshiyouyuyouyizhaohuatierchuxiande。

zaizixunzhong，shiwoxuduo jiyujiandaoyixie“xianliaochehuoxianchang”。

例如：

a：“jinritianqizhenhao!”

b：“ng。(tianqiqinglangguanwoshashi)”

a：“yaobuyiqichuquyongcanba”

b：“yixiaba。(tianqiqinglanggenyongcanyouguanxima?genniyongcanhaowuyiwentaiwuliao，wobuyuanyiqu……)”

neiyangjiuliangdebukeyizailiangle。

niyaobibushanglijiwenqizaiganshenme，liru：

a：“nizaiganshenme?”

b：“zaiqukanshuya。(tashizaixiangwoma)”

a：“yeliyoushijianyiqichifanma?”

b：“e。nixiangchishenme?(tadequeshixiangjianwole)”

a：“nvhaitaoyanbeitichuwenti”

b：“quchiniupaiba。(ha?zheigeshishenmehuiying，zhenyouyisi)”

A：“太强势了。”

 b：“wojuedechiwancanle，danyinweiwoxiangheniyiqiquchi。(wukenaihe，paiweibiwogao，kanyixiatahainengyounaxiehuashi)”

huatijinjinyigebibeipin，bushinichuangjianguanliandeguanjianxingyaosu。

 jiaruzhidianjizhekaohuatixiyinzhudaolingyifang，nenggoushuochengjibenshangbukenengdeshiqing。pinciduole，haihuijixushitaganjuenihenfawei。

 nixuyaozuode，yinggaishigenlingyifangzhanxianchuzhenzhengdeni，dangrandeni，xiangpenyouyiyangdeqingqingsongsonggoutongjiaoliu，niyejiuzuodefeichanghaole。

感觉难以保证?

xiangyixiangzishenhezuihaodepengyoushiruhejianghuade，jiuruheshuohaole。

想呈现更好的自己的

 xuduo nvhaidoushiyouyigecuowuguannian，bianshizailingyifangyanqianzhizhuyaobiaoxianchuzishenzuihaoshideyimian，zheishijishangshiyouwentide。

 zaizixunzhong，youyiwei22suidelaifangzhegenwojiang，tazaigaobiedanshendequanguochengzhong，gennanxingshuozishenpingchanghuizhufan，libaitianhuijianshenyundong，naizhiyoushihuiqubaomingcanjiayixiezhiyuanzhezheileide……。

zongeryanzhi，tayizhizaixianglingyifangbiaoshu，zishenzenyangdefenfaxiangshang，zenyangdeshehuizhengnengliang。

tahenyilv，weihezishendouneiyangbiaoshule，huanshituobukaidan。

tabuqingchudeshi，nisuiyiquzhaoyigewanshandiandenanxingwenqi，ninengxiaineilei“wanmeinvren”ma?

tamendehuidayidingshifourende。

youyutamendoulejie，quanshijiedemeiyigerendoushiyouquexian。jiarutaimeihaole，huiyixiekongbu。

jishiyou，neiyeshibiaoyanlaide，houbianyidingyoushenkengyaotian。

zheishiduoshaohuirangnanxingganjueyixiezaodongbuan，yinci haiyaoshidudezhuyaobiaoxianchuzishendequedian。

kanqilaiduizhaoduixiangmeiyouguifande

lianaizhong，jiarunidezhaoduixiangdebiaozhunshimeiyouguifan，neidaibiaozhejinixuduo deguifan。

zheileiqingkuangtongchangzhuyaobiaoxianchunvhaidemeiyouzishendeniantouhexiangfa，duiqingganderenzhinengliyeshaodi。

haijideyouyiqixiangqinyuehuileidezongyijiemu，yiweimanhaokandenvteyaojiabinshangchangshuo：

“wozhaoduixiangdebiaozhunbuyongbiaozhunfeichanghaode，yaoshitashuoaiwojiukeyile。”

jieguoxiabian20weinanteyaojiabin，meiyigedouliuledeng，danshilaidaozongyijiemuzuizhong，jifengdeyimianchuxianle：

zaidiyijieduanmandengdezhuangkuangxia，juranmeiyoupipeiqudechenggong。

 youyunvteyaojiabinzaimeiyigehuanjiedoushihuimiediaoyiduirendedeng，laidaozuizhongyilun，jincundejigenanteyaojiabinzishenjijixiledeng。

fashengshenmeshi?youyutaganjuezheixieren，bingbushizheierbutaihao，bianshineibianchayidian。

 kenengzheixienanteyaojiabindoubusha，jiandaoqianbianzheixiekuaichuanpaohui，yexiangqileshijishangnvteyaojiabinyaoqiudianxuduo ，chuxianzheileizhuangkuangyebuguaiyile。

ruguonishuo，taaiwojiuhaole，nihaiburuxixinsisuo，nirenweitazenmezuo，caisuanshishandaizijidefanying。

shuochengmeiyouguifan，xinliqueyanzanglexuduo xiwangheyaoqiu，zishenfajuebushang，tarendangranyenanyimanzuni。

 nimeiyouhuodekaolv，jianglaidejiaowangzhong，yidinghuigenjubiedefangfaquzhanxian，qingganzixunbukentuikuantousuyouyongma？jidaolingyifanggongzuoyali，ranglingyifangganjuenibengjinfawei。