花镇情感机构正规吗？连沟通都顺畅不了你还怎么爱？

huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima?jinqiwofaxianyigezhuangkuang，xuduo shoutuorenzaixunqiubangzhudeqingkuangxia，doushihuimiaoshuyigeshifenleisideqingjing：“woshizhenxinshiyifeijinxinsigentahaohaodiliaoyiliao，”“dantabuguanzenyangdoubuyuanyiqingtingwoshuo，”“liangrenyulaiyuxinfuqizao，jinlewuxianxunhuan。”“wojiujingyaogaizenmeban?”

shijishang，liangrenzaibijiaominganhuanjiedegoutongjiaoliu，shishifenbixufangfade。

被延迟时间的心态表述

tanqimeifagoutongjiaoliudezhuangkuang，juedaduoshudoushiyouyu2gerenqunzhongyouyifang，huijuebiaoshu，yehuijuelingting，caihuizaocheng goutongjiaoliubeizoulesikou。

neima，yaoshikeyinongqingtazenmehuihuijuegoutongjiaoliu，zaiduizhengzhiliao，jiudangrankeyipoyimeifagoutongjiaoliudekunjingle。

keshi，zheiyidadaolitingshanglaifeichangjiandan，zhenshizhixingqilai，dequeyouyidingnanduxishude。

liru，dajiazuipubiandedichugoutongjiaoliudezhuangkuang——yanchishijianbiaoshu。

tashixuduo rendaohunyinguanxizhonghuichuxiandenanti，wojugeshilieryan：

 huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima?ahebjinqizhengchuzaiqingganguanjianqi，lengbaolidepinciyegangkaishizhujianyousuozengjia。errangajuedefanmendeshi，meiyicilengbaolideqingkuangxia，doujielixianglingyifangbiaoshu，bingchangshichulishixiazheiyijianshier，keyizhimeishenmejinzhan。byiranshiyirujiwangdihuijuegoutongjiaoliu。zuihou，yuelaiyueyanzhongdegoutongjiaoliuweiji，yanhuabianchenglewanquandelengbaoli，jinertichufenshou。

zaizheigeshilizhong，bbianshixianzhudeyouyu“yanchishijianbiaoshu”erdaozhidemeifagoutongjiaoliudezhuangkuang。

如何来了解呢?

feichangjiandan。yibanlaijiang，youderenmeifazaishixiajiubazijidexintaihetihuibiaoxianchulai。liru，liangrenchulaiquwan，niyaoxiangqukandianying，keshitaquexiangyaoqugechang，liangrendanxinledabantian，zuizhonghuanshiqukandianyingle。zheigeshihoutaneixinshiyounanshoude，keshiquemeifajiangzheileibumanyibiaoxianchulai。

guoyiduanshijianyihou，henyoukenengdajiaquanguolianghuiyouyigexiaodemoca，keshi，taquezhuyaobiaoxiandeshifenfukua，yaobuborandanu，yaobuwanquanjianmo，zongzhibianshiyigemeifagoutongjiaoliudeqingkuang。zheijiushiyouyu，shangyicimeiyoubiaoxianchulaidebumanyi，lijingyayiganhezhangqideyunhuayihou，caizaizheiyijianshiershangzhuyaobiaoxianchuqu。

 huanjuhuashuo，zaizheileiqingkuangxia，tasuozhuyaobiaoxianchuqudexintai，genshixiadeexingshijianshichediyiweide。yezhengyouyuzheiban，wulunniruhequbiaoshushixiadeexingshijian，quanshiyushiwubude。

zaizheileiqingkuangxia，nixuyaoquzuodeweiyiyijianshiqing，bianshixunzhaotazheileibuliangqingxudeyuantou。tadaodishiyouyuheshideshenmeshiqing，zaochengleduinidewuhui，yejiushishuobutaihaodeguandian。

yaoshixunzhaogenyuan，zaijiayijiejue，caikeyichenggongpianpoyiliangrenzhongjiande“goutongjiaoliukunju”。

02

被传递的意识

chukaizishendexintaimeiyouzaineishihoushixiabiaoxianchulaiyiwai，wohaizaizuoqingganzixundeqingkuangxia，haiyudaoguoyizhongjiaoweipubiandeqingkuang。

zheileiqingkuangni，yibanhuichanshengzaimianlintichufenshou，huoshitichufenshouqianqineiyangdehuanjiezhong。

rutongxiabianzheiyiduanhuihua：

“你近几天好么?”

“tingbucuodea，younaxiebutaihaode。”

“e，neinitingwoshuoyixia，wo...”

“bieshuole，wobuhuitingnishuojiutingbucuode，niyishuowoyebuhaole。”

“niweishenmebukeyijigejiyuwomenliangliaoyiliaoni?”

“nirujinbubigaosuwozheizhong，yinweiwobuyuangenniliaozheizhongwupin。”

“niyejiuneimejueqingma?neimezhangqideqinggannijuedebubijiububi?”

(沒有回应。)

“woneimeaixizheiyiduanqinggan，niyejiulianyigewanliudejiyuyebubangwome?”

(沒有回应。)

“niyiqiangenwozaiyiqideqingkuangxiabenlaibushizheiyimoyangde!”

(lingyifangdakailehaoyouyanzheng，niyaobingbushitadepengyou。)

zheiyiduanhuihualejiema?zheijiushihenduorentichufenshouqianye，huoshigangfenshoudeshihoudeweixinliaotianjilu。zheileizhuangkuang，zaijutideshouquanweituoshilizhongdequeyouchuxianguoshuci。

weihetazaizheigeshihouchedihuijuegennidegoutongjiaoliuni?

便是由于不想听。

youyuyouguoduocanliudewupinhaigengzaidajialiangrenzhongjian，erzheileiqingkuangxia，takendingyaoxiangrangzishenqingjing、qingsongyidian，dangranbutaikenengzaigenniyizhizaiwanliudeshiershangduofeikoushe。

zheileiqingkuangxia，nikeyizuodezuihaoshidetiaoxuanbianshi——zhongzhixiangtachuandizheixiejianjiehebiaoshu。

jiarunibukeyizhongzhixianglingyifangbuduan“shuchu”nidezheixieniantou，yebukeyizhongzhiniyiciyouyicibuduanfanfuwanliudexuqiu，neizuihoudejieguo，haowuyiwenrutonghuihualineiban：jiaruheimingdan。

niyizhizaishixianengzuode，bianshihaowuyiwentadexintai，zhuyaobiaoxianchuwochedijiandaoerqielejienirujinbuyuantantaodezheiyixintaiheqingkuangle。wobuxiangzaibinishenme，keshiwoyizhidouzaizhei，dengzhenixinqingyukuaiyidiandeqingkuangxia，dajiazaieryan。

yaoshizheileixintaiyibaichu，tacaihuijindaodaoyige“xunsupingwen、chongzulizhi、zaicigoutongjiaoliu”deqingkuangzhongqu。yihoudebuzhoucaikeyishunlikaizhan。