花镇情感机构正规吗？暧昧不清的前女友关系该如何应对？

huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima?afuzaiweixingongzhongpingtaijiedaoneiyangyitiaoliuyanbanliuyan：“hegaolengnanshenxiangchudefeichanghao，xianghujiangyaoguoqulesangeyuedeaimeiqi，yanjianjiuxuyaoquedingguanxi，keshubuzhi，tafenshoubannianduodeqianrennvyouhurancilezhi，lijichongguotajiazhongqiufuhexing，wogaizenmezuoa?”

liruxiangjindenantiyeyou：nanyouhaibaocunzhetaqianrennvyoudewupin，tashifoubuaiwo?tadeqianrennvyouyoulainaole，woxiangbubitichufenshou?woqiaoqiaoqutaqianrennvyoudeshineikongjiankanguo，yishunjianganjuehaobuzixin……shide，xianshishenghuozhonggaoduguanzhuqianrennvyoudexinrennvpengyoujuebuzaishaoshu。

neima，youguannanpengyoudeqianrennvyou，dajiajiujingyingdangruhelaijiejueni?

最先

为什么分手?

zhaoyigeyeheifenggao，sixiawurendeyeli，tesemeishijianiangjiaroutideyouhuoxia，rangnanpengyoufangsongjingti，zailingyifangsizuiweizuideqingkuangxia，weiyikaozaitadehuaizhong，maimengdeshuo：“nineimehao，juedezishenyujiannijiqihaoyun，ganxieyiqiannagemeiyouzhenxideren。”“zhenduinageta，dajiaweishenmefenshoude?shitameiyouzhenxima?”zhujiangangkaishijianjiandizakainanpengyoudezui。

shijishangfenshouyuanyinzhongjiutaobuchuerdian：

yi、zhuguanyuanyin。ganqinglengdan，bicimeilejuede，huoyifangaishangletaren。zheileitichufenshou，jieguoyibanburongyitaihao，fuhexinggailvdi。

er、keguanshiwuyaosu。rubiyezhihoufendaoyangbiao，gongzuozhongbianhuadengzaocheng dejianjuqianche，huolaiyuanyufumudedizhi，huoyinnianshaoqishengbumingbaigoutongjiaoliu、baorong，buzhidaoruhewanhui……

zheileitichufenshou，qiannanyourutongyikezhushazhi，changchangzhanzhuanfance，zonghuixiangqihetayiqizouguodeyiqianlu，yiqitingguodebeishangqingge，yiqikanledewuyedianying，zhuiyiqianjuanderutonghainengzaiaiyihui;siniantadeyipinyixiao，yidixiatoudewenrou，yingduizheileiqiannanyou，nipobudeyifang。

场景一

henanpengyouzhenglangqingqieyi，hezhejianiang，kanjianyingpian，huochuanxingyuhuijialedeqingyouxiaolu，zheishihounanpengyoushoujishangqueliangqilaile，yitiaoqianrennvyouxinxibaituoleguocheng。yingduizongaishenyelaisaoraonanpengyou，kaizhanneixingoutongjiaoliudeqianrennvyou，nigaizenmezuoni?

jiejuefangan：zheishinilijibatashoujishangnaqilaidiuzaishafashang，wumeidongrenyiguoqu，qinyiqinbaoyibaoshuiyishui。gouqilinghun，ruanqixingu，sheqijingli，shitanengduowanhuiyingjiuduowanhuiying。

zaiwaimiansansanbu，zeyibajiangshoujishangduoguofangdaobaoli，youdianmaimengfahuodeshuo：“zaihebierenyouhui，wulunsheidexinxi，doububihui，zheiyikenizhibushuyuwoo!”suihoulazheshuangshou，yiqikanyueershuxingxing。

jilao：zhenduiqianrennvyoudexinxi，xianbuyaohuang，tabushijiuxiangzhaonanpengyouxianliaosukuyiyiqianma，nizhibixurangnanpengyounengduowanhui，jiuduowanhui，nengdiertianhui，jiudiertianhui，nengbuhui，yebuhui，caiyongtuoyanzhanshu。

场景二

nanpengyouheqianrennvyouchudeyigeshejiaoquan，kenengshipengyou，henyoukenenghaihuijixuzaipengyoujucanshangchangchangpengmian，gesanchawujiukanjianlingyifangzainanpengyouyanqianhuangdong。shitalizhi，butaikeneng，duanjueyiqietongxueguanxi，gengbutaikeneng，neimaruhejiejueni?

zuixian，caiyongshoumairenxinfa。

shuobailedeminxinzhedetiandi，zheishihounixuyaozaitashejiaoquanzhongchanghuichuxian，xianshudian，tinghuadian。liruchangchangjidahuoersongqujiabanjiadianfangbian，dianxiexiawuchashijian，jipengyoumenpengyoumendaixielvyoulipin，jilinanpengyouhedahuoerlibaitianduojuhuihuodongzheixie，360duduofangweizhanxiannidemeilinideshanjierenyi，zaitadeweixinpengyouquantongshiquanzhonggoujianyouliangyonghupingjia。

ruciyilainibudanzaiquanlituijinzhengshiyingxiangli，dedao shehuiyulunshiyong，tashenbianderenhaihuijixushikebangnijianguan，dangzuoyanzhuangrenwujiaose，yongyoudongjingniyekeyidiyishijiandedao ziyuan。

次之，撒狗粮法。

huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima?yingduiyixieqiangdadeqianrennvyou，tamenbudanzainanpengyouyanqianhuangdong，haigesanchawudegouyinnanyou，zheishihounizebixubaichuzishenzhengshidezishi，zaixingweijuzhishangzhanyalingyifang。

liru，talaikandenanpengyou，bingdailexuduo shicaiyinpinhuashu，yifuzhurengongqishi。ninengshuo，“taihaole，zheizhongwupintarujindoutaoyanle，keshiwoshoutaweihaiwohenxihuanle。neijirannisongguolaile，woyejieguoge。”

huoshi，tagendajiayongcandeqingkuangxia，youyijiqiyiqianxianghuzhuiyi，“tazhiqianzuixihuanchixxxle。”zheishihounixuyaotanranmiandui，qingshenwangzhenanpengyou，shuangshounazhetadeshoushuo：“wo，yuanlainizhiqianxihuanchizheigeni，neimewozhihoujingchangzuorangnichi，haoma?”

huoshi，changchanghenanpengyouzaiyiqijiabanjiadian，zheishihounixuyaodaizhuyexiao，qianquwenweinanpengyou,“qinaidede，jinrixinku，henwanrengzaiweiwomendeweilaierqinfen，wodailenizuixihuanchidexxx”bingdangzhongweinanpengyou，batadangzuoyinxingren。

jilao：zheileichangjingzhongdejichugongshijisuanwei“yinhuatitaolun+sagouliang”，yiqifenglingyifangweifuwuzongzhi。

场景三

benlaitichufenshoubannian，nanpengyouzaoyiyouxinganqing，haiyituozaituobuyuanfangkaishou，rutongkaishidemeizhixushuyiban，lizhi，lijizhuangbaoxinglixianggandaonanpengyoujiali，shiyanyikuernaosandiaosidegouxueju，gaizenyangjiejue?

zuixianyingduizhenduizheilei“yiyanbuhejiutouhe”degaoshi，xinlizhuangtaifeichangjiandan——“woyejingjingdikannizhuangx”。wulunlingyifangruhenao，nixianpingwennanpengyoushiqi，xiaorongdekanjiannanpengyoushuo：“woganquexin”。

henanpengyouzhanzaitongyizhanxianshang，yingduiqianrennvyou。qianrennvyoudianhuahongzha，womenjiudaiji;qianrennvyoushangmenfuwuqingren，niyejiuzuoxiaorongtiemenshen;qianrennvyouyaosiyaohuo，niyejiujingbaohuoshizhaotama。

lingyifangmian，fuweihaonanpengyoudexintai，“shifoufeichangleia?gongzuozhongdouneimamangleyeyaojiejuezheileishier，xinkuwo。”yiyangshiqinyiqinbaoyibaoshuiyishui，suihougaozhinanpengyou：“zhenzaihuni，tadouneiyangle，nidangshishiruheaoguoqude?”(anshizhenanpengyou，neiyangdenvhaishierduo，fuhexingzhihougengbubian)。

总而言之，记牢决不给她独立和男朋友交往的一切机遇。