我在花镇购买了感情咨询服务，想成为男人戒不掉的女人吗?

wozaihuazhengoumaileganqingzixunfuwu，changchanghuichuxianzhangxiang、wenping、shouyidoufeichanghaodenvshenggenwoshuo：

“qianjie，weishayizhigennanhaizitanlianaixiangchubujiujiutichufenshou，jiujinggaizenyangchijiudeweichiyiduanqingganni?”

ganqingjinyouzaigangkaishidediyimiaokaoyuanfen，shengxiadeshijianquanshikaoconghuiheyunying。

yiduanchijiuhaodeqinggan，liangrenyinggaishihezuohuobanguanlian。

bicibixuyoukeyinadexiashoudeziyuan，keyijilingyifangchushishiyongjiazhi，nirenzhengaohaoxiaoshoushichang，worenzhengaohaoguanlifangfa，caiyoukenengyunyingdehaozheigemingjiao“ganqing”degongsi。

jinrijiaotangmeimensanzhao，bangnigengqiangdebaochiyiduanchijiudeqinggan：

“同理心沟通”

我是最了解你的知心

shenmejiaoaiqingzhongdetonglixin?

bianshiqinlinqijingdilejiehetihuilingyifangchanshengdegezhonggeyangxintaizhuanbian。

youqishidangliangrenzailianaizhongpengdaolefenqihemocashi，nenggouxianghulizailingyifangdeshijiaokaolvdaonanti，gengqiangdexianghulijie。

1、聆听的工作能力

xuehaoqingtingheguanzhulingyifangdeniantou、juedehelijing，xiangduofangmianzhangwo，erbushixiangduofangmiangenggai。

genjuneiyangdexintaiyaoyuelingyifanggongxiang，quzhangwolingyifangdezhenzhengniantou。wozaihuazhengoumaileganqingzixunfuwu，qiewuyongtuiduande“tananluojisiwei”qusaoshizheifenairen。

2、体现的工作能力

shuobaile“tixian”，nenggouxiangxiangzishenzuoweiyimianjingzi，zhongchengdiyingchenchulingyifangdeyuju，bubiwaiqulingyifangdehua，bubijiayoutiancuhuozizhuyiduan。

qiewuyingyongxinlizhanshu，ranglingyifangqucainidexintai。danglingyifangduinishuotadeniantouhou，niyeyaogaozhilingyifangnideyaoqiuyuniqipanshenai。

3、沟通销售话术表述的工作能力

jinkenengwuxuzheixietingqilaitianmangongjinenglihuozhiyixingdexintaiqugoutong。

例如：

“niyinggai…”“nandaoshuonibuxiaode……”“nijiushi……!nizenmelaoshi……!”youyuzheihuiranglingyifangquanzidongjindao“xintaidiyu”fangshi，yehuilingrenbuzijuexiangyaoquhaiji。

zheishihoudajiajiukeyihuanyizhongxiaoshouhuashu：“……，nijuedezenyangni?”“dang____(exingshijian)deqingkuangxia，yizhihuirangworenwei____(tihui)。”

mingquetichuduimouleishierdetihui，yekeyiranglingyifangzhangwonizhenshidetihui，cushibicidejujiaodiannenggoubianwei“xianghuchulimouleitihui”，erbushichuli“sheidebuzhengque”。

“心态项目投资”

生产制造大量动心

zaiganqingzhong,xintaixiangmutouzishijishangbianshishengchanzhizaoxintiaojiasudejuede,ranglingyifangjuedetashihenaizhenide。

nishibushijinglineiyangdelijing?zaihegaolengnanshenxianliaodequanguochengzhongyuanbenjiuxinlvbuqiyoujiaolvbuanyoujidong，zhaowoliaozhaowoliaogaolengnanshenhuranbuhuinixinxineirongle。

zheigeshihouniyidinghuizaixinlidagu：woshishuocuolenaxiema?guoquleshiduofenzhong，zongsuanzhidaolelingyifangdehuiying。

nishentanyikouqi：yuanxianyemeiyoushuoshuocuo;youhuoshiruguonihenanshengliaotiandeqingkuangxia，tazongshiyihuierhuiying，yihuierbuhui，yihuierliaodaohaoyihuieryoubutaihao，jinizaochenglexintaishangdeqifu。

dangzaochengzheizhongqingxubodongdeqingkuangxia，niyejiuhuiquhaoqixinzheidaodishiweishenmeni?zainiyanjiudequanguochengzhizhong，bianshiniduitaxintaixiangmutouzidequanguocheng。

shijishangxintaixiangmutouzibianshi，ninengyizhiguanxinta，ninengyongxuduo shijianhehuoliqukexueyanjiutazenmehuineiyangneiban。

ruguonihuashijianqukexueyanjiutadeqingkuangxia，niduitadeqingganbianhuijianjiandizaocheng。jinertazainixinlizhuangtaidebuweibianhuijianjiandigenbierenyuelaiyuebuyiyang，jinerxiaixihuanni。zheijiushirangnanrenxintaibodongdegongxiao。

yinci yaomingbaixiaoshouhuashuzhongdetuilamen，shengchanzhizaoshuobailede“xiaojingxi”，zhengqueyindaonanrenduinikaizhanxintaixiangmutouzi。

例如：

aimeiqiyouhuipengmianhou，ninengxianzailaiyigexiaoshiya：“nikankannizheishenyifukuzichuande，zongjuedenaerbuduijing~”

zaitazhengyilianmengbidezhunbeixunwenninaerbushihedeqingkuangxia，turanaijinta(youhuiqianhaijidepenshangqianqiandedanxiangshui)。

suihouwenroudebangtashulixialingkou，henyoumanzugandeshuo：“ng~neiyangjiushuaiduole~laikannizhenbixuyigenvyou，bangnihaohaozhaoliaoqingxiyixia。”

zaitadouhaimeifanyinghuilaideqingkuangxia，zaidangranbushangyiju：zoula~yongcanqu!

liuyi：quanbudezishibixuzaibuzhibujuejinxing，haoxiangneiyishunjiannijiushitanvyou，caikeyijuyoutiaodoudeshijixiaoguo，duanduandeshiduofenzhong，nanhaizideqingxuyingdangxiangchuizhiguoshancheneibangaoaibodongba?

neiyangquweidenvhai，nanrenziranzhaojiabuzhule。

“共商规律”

感情的防腐剂

gongshangbianshilianggerenzongtimubiaoyizhi，huxianggoutongjiaoliu，gongtongfendouqujinxingyijianshiqing。

zaizhangqixingpingwenguanlianzhong，gongshangshishifenguanjiandeyigecengmian。dangdajiazaiweilegenghaoditongyijianshiqingshafeikuxindeqingkuangxia，yegengfeichangrongyizaochengluojisiweidezhuangji、ganqingdexiangjiao，gengfeichangrongyiyinqigongming，guanliancaigengweilaogu。

例如:

woyigepengyoushizuoxiaoshoushichangyingxiaohetuiguangde，lejieyigefuerdai，fuerdaishouliyoujishiwan，yuanbenxianggancanyinliansuojiamenglingyu，keshiqianhaibugou，meiyouzichanjingying，yincinvhaijitamenchulegexiangfa。

bibushangbaqianyongyukaichuangyigetuiguangyingxiaogerengongzuoshi，guhaoduogewangluoyingxiaogongzuorenyuanjiqishichangxiaoshou，nvhaierzuotuiguang，nandeyouxierenmai。

diyidanjielewangluodianshijudeyingxiaotuiguang，nvhaijiwangluodianshijuganlexuduo yingxiaotuiguang，shijixiaoguodouhenhao，zheishidiyicideyingli，zaiyingliquanguochengzhongzaochenglexuduo xiangjiao。

tamenyebianchengqinglverqiewanhun，qingganshifenjiangu。

shijishangdangdajiazaigongshangyijianshi，weilegenghaodiyijianshiqingdequdechenggonggongtongfendou，neiyangfeichangrongyizaochenghuxiangdexinrengan，buyifenli。

gongshangbianshizaiweixianghuzongtimubiaopinbodequanguochengzhongsuozaochengdegongmingdian，huirangxianghuzaochengkegumingxindeganqingqifu。

liangrenjiaruquefajingshenshizhigongmingdian，shiwufaxiangtanlianaigaoxiedehuanjiemairude。nvxingdebiaomianzhiyourangnanrenliuyini，dajiashibushinengzhangjiu，zaizheigenianlingcengzaiyudajiashibushinenggougongtongchengzhang。

jiarutashiyigexiaiyuedu，kekuzuanyankexueyanjiu，shangxishuicaihua，dannizhixiaiguangjiegouwugoumaiyifu，kandianshiju，worenweitadebuxieyiguyeshiyiqiezhengchangde。

jiarutadudequanshi《xiangduilun》，《zizhitongjian》，《shiji》zheixie，danniqukanshuzhikanlengkuzongcai，neitashiyidinggennimeigongmingdian。

meiyoujingshenshizhigongmingdianjiubukeyichanshengbixuyubeixuyao，yikaoyubeiyikaodeguanlian。tabuyikaoni，ziranyebuxinganqingyuanhuadaliangsixula。

ganqingjinyouzaigangkaishidediyimiaokaoyuanfen，shengxiadeshijianquanshikaoconghuiheyunying。