我在花镇购买了感情咨询服务，学了这么多干货还征服不了男人？

wozaihuazhengoumaileganqingzixunfuwu，xingqiliuqiahaokanguochenfeirenqiaodanjiaoshidewenzhangneirong，jiaodajiazenyangshuohuazhidao。wojizhulebunengshuo“weishenmebu”，shuoqi“xingma”。

yelihuidaojia，jiandaozhangfuzuozaishafashangkanshouji，shenghuoyangtaideyifukuzimianshou，fanyoubuzhu，momingqimiaodenaonucongdantianyongshangxintou，xiangzhe“nishilaodayema?dengzhewolaisihouma?”

yixiazi，baxiawugangkandeneirongquanwangjile，suikoushuochu：“shenghuoyangtaideyifukuziweishenmebushou?fanyoubuzhu，nixiangzenyang?”

shishayaowoshuobuchu“zhangfu，bashenghuoyangtaideyifukuzishouyixia，xingma?”

youyuwodexinlibianyouneiyangyitaoluojixing：sheihuijialezao，sheijiuxianbayifushoule，bafanzhule。nandaoshuowozheitaoluojixingyouwuma?zheibushiyingdangdema?

nandaoshuoyeyaowohongzhetacainengzheizhongshierma?

xianzaishitabudui，youbingbushiwo，weiheyeyaowoqiuzhetashouyifuhezuofan?

zheiyi“xingma”wokaibulekou!

tangruodajianeixinyingduiairen、duihunyinshenghuoyouyitaoguishuyuzishendeluojixing，erqieganjuelingyifangjiuyingdangyizhaozheitaoluojixinglaizuoshi，neidequenanyibafeirenqiaodanjiaoshidefangfayingyongshang，youyuworenweixianzaishitabudui，yinggaishitalaixuexizheizhongfangfacaidui。

danshijishang，zheibushisheiduidaodishisheidecuodenanti，zhishizheiyiluojixingshizenmedingchuqude?tazhidaozheiyiluojixingma?tayuanyima?nimenliangyoumuyoudadaoguoyizhi?

tangruoyemeiyou，dandajiaquejuedetashirenherendedegongshi，meiyigerendoulidangyaolejiedehua，neidajiaduiairenbianhuiyuelaiyuehenkeke、henrongyishengqi，zhongjiumeiyigerendeluojixingquanshibuyiyangde。

ruguonishitalaozong，zheigewentilingshuole，danniliangshilianren，bingbushigegebumen，dangtaganlenimeilingrenmanyideshiershi，texingjiubushitazuobuduishier，zhishitaganleyijianninanshoudeshierbale。

wozaihuazhengoumaileganqingzixunfuwu，ninanshou≠tabudui

ruguonikeyiyishidaozheiyichabiedeqingkuangxia，jiuburongyichizeta，zhishihetatantaozenmejiejue，zheigeshihou，ganhuozhishijiunenglijidazhanshenshoule。

woyouyigeqiuzhuzhejiaoxiaowei，tahenmimangbuqingchutadehunyinshenghuoyaozenmequxialai，youyujienabushangzhangfuchugui。danshitayoumeiyougongzuo，doumeiyouyijizhizhang，haipaliyi。

ciwai，taganjuezishenhezhangfudexiangchumoshishiyoushenmewentide，yaoburanzhangfuyebuhuiwaiyu。yinci taqidaikeyixuedianliangxingjiaowangjiqiao，huifuhezhangfudeguanlian。

dandangwomenrangtaquzuochuyixiegenggaideqingkuangxia，taqueganjuezixunmeiyoushenmeshijixiaoguo，youyutaganjuequanshitazishenyigerenzaigenggai，erzhangfuquequandouwuxuzuo，tashuo：

“rujinchuguiderenbenlaishita，quejiaowoxiangfanququyueta，neiyangtaidijianle，wobuxiangzheiyangzuo，xiwangjiaoshinengxianggebanfashitayeyiqigenggai，yaoburanyemeiyouqudongli。”

我讲：

“nifangfoganjuehuifuzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuoyeshitadebixu?dankanshangqu，tafangfomeiyouzheiyibixu。youyulaizuozixunderenjiushini，yaoxiangbaituokunjingdeyejiushini。nimeiyouzhuanyenengli，nixuyaozheiyijia，neimajiubixutouruxiangduideqinfen。”

yixieqingkuangxia，dajiahuibazijidebixudangzuoshitarendebixu，ganjuequanshitarenbixuwo，erbushiwoxuyaotaren，youyujiarujiushiwobixutarendehua，jiukanqilaibulebuqi，zheihedajiadeziyiweishixiangguan。

ruguonikeyiyishidaobaituokunjingshizishendebixushi，jiuburongyijuededijian，youyujinjinzaizuohaozijideshierbale。

担心

youshi，yueqinmiwujianderenfandaohuinanbiaoshuzhenxinhua，youyushushixianghule，leijiguoduosunhaile，yizhiyuhaipazailingyifangyanqianzhuyaobiaoxianchurouruodeyimian，danxinlingyifangjiejibawozhuzishenderuanzhu，cihouzishenzaizheiliduanguanlianlijiucongcimeifafanpan。

wolingyigeqiuzhuzhexiaolin，weilegenghaodibeiyunqibagongzuozhongcituizaijiazuojiatingzhufu。zhangfugongzuozhongbijiaomang，huidaojiabingbushikanshoujibianshijiabanjiadian，yincitamenchangchangzhengchao。

youyumeiyougongzuo，xiaolintihuibushangzishendeshiyongjiazhi，zaizaijiashangyizhimeihuaishangxiaohai，jiugengcuozhele。weilegenghaodizhaodaoxinxin，tajingchangzhilingzhangfuzuozheiyizuoneige，yizhiyuzhangfuyulaiyudujueta。

wogaosuxiaolin，tahezhangfuzaoyijinruleyigeliangjihua，tajuedecuozhedeqingkuangxiahuizhilingzhangfu，zhangfuhuidujueta，suihoutajiugengcuozhe，duizhangfudezhilingdaliang，zhangfujiugengdujueta。

weiyinengtiaochulaizheiyixunhuanxitongbianshiyaorangtazaizhangfuyanqianbiaoshuzishenxinlingshenchudejiaolvqingxu、danxinhecuozhe，erbushigenjuqiangshidefangfabazheizhongqingxuxuanxiechuqu。

jinyourangzhangfuganshoudaotademingan，tacaihuixintong，caihuilejiexifuzhenduizisheneryanyouduoguanjian，caihuigengxiangyaoqutouru。

danxiaolinqueyizhidouzuobudao，meifazaizhangfuyanqianbiaoshuzheixiexintai，youyutadanxinzhangfujiandaozishenderouruohouhuikanbuqita、kanbushangta，naizhilitaerqu。

danshijishangzhenshikanbuqita、kanbushangtaderenshixiaolinzishen，yinci  tacongbuhuiku，yebuhuimaimeng，bazheixieyiweizhezherouruodexintaidouzangdeshenshendide，haipatarenjiandaohouhuichenghuodajie、guohechaiqiao。

yinci ，xiaolinhendanxin，haipazaizhangfuyanqiantuodiaoqiangshidejiqiao。duitaeryan，zheibushiliangsanjudenanti，zhishiyichangduqian，ruguoshudiao，jiucongcimeifazaizhangfuyanqiantaiqitoule。

xuduo qingkuangxia，dajiadoushihuibahunyinguanxidangzuoshijingzhengguanxi，zaisheiqiangsheiruodeshichangjingzhengzhong，dajiahaipazishendexuqiuganbeilingyifangjiandao，haipabahuashuodetaibanglelingyifanghuixiaozhangbahu，yizhiyudajiajibian xuelezaiduodegoutongfangfa，yemeifashuochurukou。

danshijishangbiaoshuzhenxinhua≠shudiao，nijinjinxiaitabale，niyenenggoutaoyanta，nishini，tahuanshita。jiarudajiaxiangyiqiguoshenghuo，bixuhuxiangzhaogu、huxiangxinren，erbushihuxiangjingzheng。