有在花镇退款成功的吗？选择结婚对象的时候需要考虑男生哪些方面？

 youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？「zixunzhong，jingchangyounvhaigenwoshuo：“kege，nijuedezhaonanpengyouyingdangyouxianxuanzekaolvdaotadeshenmedianni?”

 haodehunyinkendingbingbushihulihutudegoushiyun，zaijiehunqiannanhaierdexuduo xingqing、weiren、sanguandengshijishangquanshiruyingsuixingde，yinci dahuoeryidingyaoshensishulv、xixinfenbian、yansurenzhentiaoxuan，caikeyiquebaojiehunhoudeshenghuoshiyuqibanhemuxingfu。

kegejinribangdahuoerjianyihuizongyixie，yigongnvhaimencanzhao：

1、容貌易逝，品行常存，品行一定摆放在第一位。

 xiangmaokushuaipiaoliangdenanhaieryidingshiyoufengcaide，danyoufengcaibuyiweizheheshichijiuxiangsui，zhongyaoyeyaokantadepinxing，yejiushiweirenhexingqing，zheiyizaiquanbuzhaoduixiangmubiaokaolvdaoyaosushangdoushizuizhongyaode。

 youyurongmaodeyouhuolishiduanzanxingde，dangliangrenjindaochaomuxiangduixingdeshenghuoli，meiyouhaodeweirenhepingwendexingqing，naxiewaiyu、hunhouchugui、jiatingbaolidengqiguaishier，doufeichangrongyimeitianzainijiazhongkaiyan。

 bingqieyigerendeweirenhexingqingyidanchanshengshinanyigenggaide，tamenbudanlijiweihaizhetazenyangdairenjiewu，zenyangkandaini，yejianjiexingweihaizhetazenyangwenhuajiaoyuernv、zenyangshanyangfumuzheixiehenduonanti。

yinci nvshengyaoxiangjiadexingfukuaile，zheiyipinxingyidingyaobaizaishouweikaolvdao。

2、有工作能力、进取心的男孩儿，不容易让生活过的很差

 duibiyujiatingtiaojian、jingji，wogengzhuzhongyigenanhaidegongzuonenglihejinquxin，youyuyougongzuonengliyiweizhezhetayourangshenghuoguodegengqiangdebenshihejiben。

 shifoukeyishiqudechenggongkaodeshishijianhetadeshangjinxin，erjiaruotaqiaqiaoshigeduishenghuofenfaxiangshang，duigongzuozhongyoufazhanguihua，duirenshengdaoluyouzongtimubiaoniantouderen，neimawulunzheiyinanhaierrujinbiaozhunzenyang，tadejianglaidouburongyiguodehencha。

3、最好是，他爱着你多一些，你钦佩他多一些

 nvhaierbulunshenmeshihoubixuzhaoyigeshandaizijidenanhaier，jiusuannianlingdale，babamamacuile，yebubiyinercouhezishen。

 taaizhenichukaipingshinuanni，zhilengzhire，zuiguanjianshizaichanshengyiqieshiershidoushihuijiangnifangdaodiyiwei，burongyipengdaofengxian，yingduixuanzezuikaishilikaini。

 chukaitaaizheni，zuihaoshiniyekeyishangxita、qinpeita，tajiushinideyingxiongrenwu，nishitadexintoubao，neiyangderonghecaisuanshijizhide。

4、类似的成长自然环境和情况，决策大家的三观和观点

 jinguanchengzhangziranhuanjing、jiatingqingkuangjiaoyuzhuangkuang，bingbujueceliangrenshibushishihe，keshichengqianshangwanshishizhengshile“menbudanghubudui“huanshigengfeichangrongyihuodeshenxinjiankang、pingwendehunyinshenghuo。

zuixian，lianggerenduishenghuozhonghenduonantideguandiangengfeichangrongyiyinqigongminghedachengyizhi;

cizhi，renshengjiazhiguanhuihenleisi，xiaoqingdiaozaiyibufenrenyanlishiyoupinwei，zailingyibufenrenyanliqueshipuzhanglangfei;

zuizhong，goutongqilaihuigengfeichangrongyixie，jitongyajiang、duiniudanqinquanshilaiyuanyuwenhuajiaoyuheqingkuangdebuyizhi。

5、男孩儿对家里人的心态，能看得出很多实质难题

 youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？「youdenvhaierzaiyilingyifangduizishendexintai，quehushiletaduizishenqinrenpenyoudexintai，jiarutazhendexihuanni，neitaduinidebabamamayidingshizunzhongxiaojingde，youyuniaixiderenbidingyeshitayaoaixideren。

 yingcaierzaizongyijiemuzhongxieshuo“wolaogongneimedexiaojibeiguan，lianneimechou，dantayijianshifumu，henzunzhongde”，yinci tadechunvhaiertiyishi“chujiayiqian，yidingxukanlingyifangruhekandaizishendebabamama，zheiyidianqueshitaiguanjianle。”

6、生活中他是个坚持不懈、有毅力的人，在感情中同样

 nvhaierchuduixiangdeqingkuangxiahebuduoguanchaxiananpengyoushibushijianchibuxiegaohaoguoyijianshi，wulunshichuruzhichangshengzhi，jianshenjianzhi，xuejineng，huanshiyiqianyongbufangqidezhuiqiunideng，zheiyitexingzuishaozhengshitashigeyouyili、youzhangxingderen。

 neiyangzaihunyinshenghuozhongpengdaonantishi，taburongyixianxiangqidanqiehetaozou，zhishihuizhanshengkunnan，genniyiqiyingduiyiqiefengchuiyuda。

7、有主见的男孩儿，才会让你理性、完善的爱

 “baomanan”weihebianchenghenkepadecunyou，youyutamenbudanmabaonan，bingqieyumei，shenmeshiqingbixutingmuqin/fuqin/penyoudehua，tamenyagenmeiyouyiqiezishendexiangfa。

 jiarugenzheiyangderenwanhun，jiehunhoudedashiermeigongzuonenglichuli，suoshigezhonggeyangbeibierenshangxia，tawufarangnilixing、wanshandeai，gengwufajinidangfengzheyu。

8、男孩儿的微信朋友圈，就是他本身的一个小真实写照

 suhuashuodehao“renyiqunfen，wuyileiju”，nanhaiershenpangdepenyoujiushitabenshendeyigexiaozhenshixiezhao，jiarutadenvxingzhanduoshu，neitayaobulanqing，yaobuhuitaonvshihuanxi，gentazaiyiqihuifeichanglei，quefaanquangan;jiarutadenanxingpengyoudaduoshuaiyinjiu、dapai、paojiubayechang，biaomingtayexihuanwan、bukekao

 jiarutameishenmepenyou，yizhiteliduxing，henkenengtashigelengdan、zisizili，nanyirongjinrenqunderendaohunyinshenghuozhongyenanyirongjinnidejiazhong。

 yinci tiaoxuanjianglaizhangfu，zuihaoshitashenpangdepenyouquanshiyoujinquxin、xiaijiazhong、youzhengnengliangderen，tadepenyoudouneimachuse，jianxintayeburongyichaqunali

9、有使命感的男孩儿，才会给你担起人生道路的风吹雨打

hunyindeweichikaodeshisha?shiyijufuwuchengnuo、yizhangjiehunzhengshu、yigehaizi、huanshiyitaofangwu?

shijishangzheizhongquanshi，zheizhongyedoubingbushi，zhenshikeyiquebaohunyinshenghuopingwendehuanshibicibenzhideshiminggan。

 yiwudaibiaozhehuidanfujiazhongdezhongdan，huiqinfenyunyinghaoqinggan，huizhudongdiyuwaizaideyinyou，huimeishimeiketishizhezishen“woshixxdelaogong、fuqin，shiwoyiwurangtamenshenghuoguodegengqiang”。

10、观查他的家庭关系，他与爸爸妈妈的关联

 jiatingguanxiduiyigerenxingqingdepeiyangjiduiaidelijieshiyoufeichangdadeweihaide，dajiabushishuoliyijiatinghuoshibabamamaganqingbuhedexiaohaijiuburongyichuangjianshenxinjiankangdehunyinguanxi。

 jinjincongdagailvshangshuo，babamamaqingganbutaihao，jiafengjiaxunbutaihao，shifeichangrongyidaozhitamenganqingshang、xinlizhuangtaishangdezhuduonantihequedian，lirujiqimeiyouanquangan，buganxiangxinren，jiazhiganliedeng。

 chuzhangwotababamamazhongjiandeguanlian，cizhi，haiyaoguanchatayubabamamadeguanlian，youxierenjinguanshenghuozaiwenxindejia，keshibabamamaguodujiaoguan，zaocheng panni、danibudao、jiaozong，duibabamamabuzhongshi、dahoudajiao，jilaobuxiaojingfumuderenbushixuehuiganende，zhihouyebuhuitengxiniyunideqinren。

11、有的聊，聊得来，相互明白很重要

 youhuakeliao、youyidingdegongmingdianshiliangrenronghedezhongyao，jibian gangkaishinibeilingyifangderongmao、biaozhun、caichan、caiqisuoxiyinzhu，dandaozuizhongzourushijishenghuoshi。

 chukaizheixiewaizai，niyulingyifangjingshenshizhishangyidingyaoyouqiehedediqu，tanenglejieni，nikeyidongta，zaiyiqiyouhuakeliao，caikeyiranghunyinshenghuobianweiyuanyuanjingshui，erbushisishuiyitan。

12、他会宽容你的缺陷，容忍你的小作

nanshengdexionghuaishiweirande，tabudannengwennuanni，jinijiezhu，yekeyikuanrongni，jinituoxie。ruhekantashifouhuikuanrongni?

 jiukandajiazhengchaoshitadexintai，nigongzuozhongmeifajianjujiazhongshitadexintai，nifancuoshiershitadexintai，nibugaoxingnaopiqishitadexintai，niwangletadeshengchenshitadexintaizheixie。

 genjuzheizhongxiweimojiedesuoshijiunenglejietashifougeyoujinquxinderen，bumingbaikuanrongderenbudanzisizili，yefeichangrongyiqianghan，youdananrenzhuyi。

13、一直在成长才会男孩儿变为男生，不然始终长得慢

 yinweinianjideyuangu，yexutayikaishibuchengshu，xingqingdoubuwenzhong，keshirenquanshinenggoumanmanzhangdade，yaoshitayouchixuyuelaiyuehaodexinxin，jiukeyizaijiehunhougennixianghuchengzhang，qubianweiyigewenzhong、aijiazhongdenanzihandazhangfu。

 jinjin，henduonanrenzaihunhoujiurenweidashierjieshu，yagenmeiyouxiangguoweilaopo、weixiaohaiqupinbo、qugaibianxianzhuang，neimatafeichangrongyibianchengwoxingwosu，rangjiageitadenvxingganshouhunyinbuxingfu。

14、男孩儿的心里健康很重要，烦扰之处十分不易治

 xinlijiankangjiushitabiaomianxiayanzangdexinli，youxierenjinguanbiaocengshigewenrunruyu，shishishangqueyoubaolixingwei;youxierenkanshangqujinjinaifapiqi，pashiquleni，shishishangshiyoumingxiandezhangkongyu;yeyouderenxinggeneixiangyiyu，