花镇情感咨询是诈骗吗？一招让男人对你死心塌地

tangge，tazongxiaihedixiongyiqichulaichichihehe、huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？wanpai，zhiqianwobuxiangguoshaoganyu，kejinqitahuazaiwodeshenshangdeshijianhehuoliyuelaiyuedile，yaowocaiyizishenshifougaiduitakaizhansiyangduice，yangezhaokan，meirizhuimingdianhuacuitahuijiale?

woyebuzhidaozhenduiyigenanrennaxiedefangshigengjiashihe?“siyang”huanshi“sanyang”，nayigegengjiashihe?

jianxinxuduo tangmeidoushiyouguoneiyangdegujihetongxin，zidahenidenanrenzaiyiqiyihou，nimeiridouguodejinzhangxixide：

buyunxutashenpangyouyiqienvhai，buyunxutazaiwaibianguihun，buyunxutacuoguonidemeidadianhua，buyunxutahenwanhuijialezheixie…

zongeryanzhi，niyankedeshixingzhe“siyangduice”，bananshengguandesisidi。

kenifajuelemeiyou?neiyangdeduicebingbuhuiduiqingganjuyouhaogongxiao，nanshengfandaoxuehuilemengpian，xuehaoxianshudeyupenyouhudayanhu。

nijiangtadangzei，tagenghui jinimen!

yinci ，liangzhezhijianguandesiside，tuixingjinbidingrende“siyangduice”，haiburuyiwentiweidaoxiangkandainidenanren，tuixingxianghushuangyingde“sanyangduice”。

tuilamenzhangchiyoudu，jinengshouzhutadexin，huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？youshitazishizhizhongduiganqingtianmanreqing!

为何要“散养”男生?

“nanrenshiyeshengdongzhiwu，nvrenshijianchaoxiaodongwu”

congdilihuanjingjiduandeyuangushidaigangkaishi，nanshengjiuxuyaochumenbulie，dedao jichudeshengcunquan;laidaoxiaoyansiqidekangzhanshiqi，nanshengyouyaokaokaituochuangxinlaihuodegaoguanhoulu。

laidaoxianrujinshichangjingzhengjiliedexiandaishehui，zaiwaimianchuangdang、zhuiqiuwanmeiyingxianglihededao caifurengranshinanxingzhuyaodeshengcunzhidao。

zheigendaziranzhongdeyeshengdongzhiwuzongyao‘zhanshanchengba’shiyigedadaoli。

它是男生的自然属性。

ernvxingdeziranshuxingshi“jianchaoxiaodongwu”，jianchaoqinjianchijiashidabufennvshidezhuyaoshengcunzhidao，jiziranshuxing。(chumengongzuozhong、caifuziyouzeshinvxingdeshehuishuxing)

yinci gennvxingduibi，nanshenggengjubeishichangjingzhengguannian，tamendaduoshuxiaichumengongzuozhong，jiaozhubulie，erbushidaizaijiali。

jiugenyelangyiyang，taoyanbeigudingbudongshuanzaiyigediqu，chongjingwujusuiyi，zhizaisifang，xiaibuduandizhuiqiuwanmeixinxiancijixingshiqing。

chufeishiyouyitian，pengdaotashenaizhedenvxing，tacaihuizouru“yeshengdongwuyuan”(bianshinanshengyanlidejia)，ganxinqingyuanbeita“siyang”qilai。

dan，zhangqixingdesiyangnansheng，zongshirangtamensangshishiqi。

yixietangmeizongqidainanshengzishizhizhongzaizishendecaokongyinei，zishizhizhongrulianaibanduizishenhao。

danshi，yaolejie，rendeshijianhuolishibijiaoyouxiande，bajuedaduoshuhuolizijintourudaomouyifangmianshi，biedecengmiandejiubidinghuixiaoruo(lirugongzuo、renjijiaowang)。

tanggehaimeiyoujianguonayigeyitiandaowanweizhulaopo、weizhujiazhongzhuandenansheng，lingwaihaikeyibagongzuozuodeshunfengshunshuide。

dajiananrenxuyaoyouzishendegongzuo、youzishendeweixinpengyouquan，bixurenjijiaowangquweichi，haiyaochixuxuexitishengzishendegongzuonengli，laiweizijidenvxingxiaohaidaiquanxinderichangshenghuo。

erzhangqixingdesiyangnansheng，zongshishitasangshizuoweinanshengdeziranshuxing。sangshibulie、shichangjingzheng、chuangdangdeshiqi。

shexiang，yigebaquanbuhuolifangdaonideshenshang，quezaibiedecengmianhuidiaodenansheng，jiushiniyaoxiangdema?

怎样恰如其分地散养男生?

许多 堂妹，在情感上都释放出来了“过多的情感需求”。要不是过多的放弃，要不是过多的索要。

youqishijindaohunyinshenghuohou，nvxinghuibahunyinshenghuozuoweiyigebaoxianju，yidanjinqubianhuiquanzidongsuoshang。

yinci，dajiananshengjiugengjiadeganjue，hunyinshenghuojiuhaoxiangjushuzishendeqiulao，daijiulejiujinbuzhuyaoxiangchulaijihuajiaoshui。

kanleyigeshili，yigeyouxiudenanren，renhenshuai，zhuanyenengliyeqiang，yizhiyilaihelaopoqinmiwujian。shubuzhiwanhunbushang2nianjiuhuiyouhunhouchuguile。

nanshengduiyucishidebiaoshushi：“laopodeaixiongyongpengpai，ganjintanisile。”

congwanhunyihou，laopojiuyiaidemingyiduitatuixing“siyangduice”：

xiabanlewanxielehui，suohunlianhuaicalljiulaile：zhangfu，nizenmehaibuhuijiaa?doujidianla?nikuaihuilai，wohaoxiangnia!