花镇情感咨询是诈骗吗？学会这样制造仪式感

 huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？rangqinggantianmanshenmiganlibulexinyidediaoji，dajiagenjuwangluotoupiaotiaoxuanchulelianaizhongzuijubeixinyide3jianshier，niyoumeiyouzuoleni?

第一件：确定关系的新意

 aimeibumingshiyijianlingrenshenganshengqideshier，yinci yidandajiashuangfangdouyouhaogan，neimahebuyingyongyixie，xianluxinji，xunzhaoyigehuida。

jiarubuzuxiailingyifang，qinglakaijuli，yifangdaozhiduoyudewujie。

 nideyiju“woaini”huoshi“zuowonan/nvyouzenmeyang”，huiranglingyifanglejiedaoniduitadeqingganyouduomedechengzhi，nenggourangtashuxinlaiyunixiangchu。

 zaiyiqishi，lingyifangtongchangburongyiguidingnichuxinjilvdezhaogaotianxia，huoshitiqianzhunbeiduomedefukuadebiaobai，ruguonigouzhenxinshiyi，neimalingyifangjiuxiangyaorangniyigexieshoubingjiandejiyu，zhongjiushijianhaizhang，langmandeshiqingbuhuangzheiyishi。

 jiarunidetaxingqingjiaoweineixiangxing，guoyibuquyunijiushuodehua，neimahebuzhaoyigeshihedetupokoulaiguaiwanmojiaoyixiatadexintai。

 biru：“womenzaiyiqiduozhangshijianleya?”suihoujilaolingyifangshuodeshijian，suihoubazheiyitianzuoweidajiaxuanbuxiangchudediyitian。

 huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？bubirangzishenchuyuaimeibuqingdemianli，zishenyiqiangjiqinghuandelingyifang：“baoqian，nihenyoukenengwujiele”，neimejiutaishangxinle，buqingbuchudegangkaishi，yehuibujingyijiandewanbi。

第二件：七夕节要有新意

qixijiebingbushiyibandechuantongjieri，tashizhengshidajiaenaideduteshenghuo。

 lipinshiwubiyaotiqianzhunbeide，zheiyifenlipinbuzaiyinihualeyaoduoshaoqian，yongleshiduoshaodeshijiantiqianzhunbei，yaoshinengranglingyifangjuededaonideqingyi，henjiandandexiaolipinhaikeyi。

ziran，zaibiaozhunrongxudezhuangkuangxia，tiqianzhunbeiyifenhaoligengqiang。

yidingyidingbubihanzhemeikong，meiyouqiandengtuocimeiqutiqianzhunbeilipin。

 jiusuanzishenquzuofantiqianzhunbeiyizhuotaaichidefanshi，huoshiyiqiqukanchangyingpianyequanshinenggoude，yidingbubiqingyideqipianyiwang。

lingyifangxiangbihuodesongshenmeliwu，gengkanhaodejiushiniduitadexintai，jiniduogaoduzhongshita。

 lingyifangburongyimanbujianglidimingquetichujiniwufajienadeguiding，ruguonizaiyouyiyideshidefanchounei，jitayifenzhengshi，zhengshinizhenaitade，nixiangyaoquyongxinguanaidajiadeqinggan，zheijiuchongzule。

第三件：临睡前典礼

 “wananhaomeng”zheigecishishifenxiweide，tebieshizaizailianrenjian，wananhaomeng=woaini，wananhaomengyiweizhezhe：woyijingguanmen,yibukuodakaifang，danshiwoxianggaosuniyisheng，nishiwoxinzhongyitianwanbiqianzuiguanianderen，yongyou yuzhongbutongdeshijiyiyi。

 tangruodajiayouyufanmangyizhengtiandoumeidouhaimeipengmianhuoshixianliao，neimalinshuiqiandewananhaomengjiukanqilaizhiguanzhongyao，yijuwananhaomeng，gaozhilingyifang，jinguanwohenfanmang，keshiwoyizhijiguazheni。

 jiarudajialianggerenzhongjianyouyuzhengchaohuoshibiedeshier，meiyouzailinshuiqianwanan，neimaqingzaidiertianzaochenhelingyifangshuoyixianirujindeqingkuang，bubirangzhenzhengainiderenxintengni。

 huoshininenghelingyifangmaimengdeshuo：“wodouqizheni~caibubibawananhaomengjini。”jianxinkeyifeichanghaodibaituolengbaolidekunju。