花镇退款成功的有吗？你和男友还有这样一个大坎儿必须要过

 huazhentuikuanchenggongdeyouma？paitahuanjiebianshixianghuxiangchu，lijingyiduanshijianhou，juedelingyifangkenengshizishendelinghunbanlv，yincicishiyibukaolvdaobierendeyigehuanjie。

“paita”huanjieyihoushiqinmiwujianhuanjie，zaisuihoushidingqinhuanjie。

“paita”huanjiejiarunengchenggongduguo，huirangdajiajindaoqinmiwujianhuanjie，suihoujindaodingqinhuanjie。

 jinyouchenggongduguoaidewugehuanjie，dajiacaikeyigengdagailvdijindaohunyinshenghuo，huodelaogudehunyinshenghuojianglai，nidetouruheqinfencaijianghuandeyibeizidezirunhelianrendeshouhou。

“paita”huanjiedajiahuipengdaodejiaoda denantishishenmeni?

针对他的投入，女人见怪不怪。

 youyuyongyouyidingdejiben，zaizhuiqiuwanmeihuanjie，nanrenweilegenghaodixiyinzhunvrendeliuyi，huizhanxianxuduo zishendeyoudian，weinvrenzuoxuduo shi，laidedao zheiyiduanguanlian，nvrenzaibeizhuiqiuwanmeideqingkuangxia，xiguannanrendetouru，zhujianjianguaibuguai。

 rutongqianqiyouhuideqingkuangxia，nanrenhuiyinqindelaijienvrenxiabanle，huijijijinvrenkaichemenzheixie，gangkaishinvrenhaihuibiaoshiganji，dangpinciduohou，nvrenjiuxiguan，bianhuijuedelisuoyingdang，jiugaizaoshouzheileixiaogongzhudegongzidaiyu。

女人总感觉男人投入的不足。

zaiganqingli，liangrendouxianghutouru，keshinvrenhuiganjuenanrentourudebuzu。

 nanrenjizijitouru，nvrenganshoudaonanrendeqingyihou，dianjizheganenhuikuilingyifang，huazhentuikuanchenggongdeyouma？bianhuiyiyangdetouru，naizhichuziyutianxingerdaliangdetouru。dangnvrentouruhou，huijiaoweiliangrensheidetourudaliang，jiarujuedelingyifangdetourubibushangzishendetouruduo，bianhuihuaihenzaixin。

男人已不积极的为女人办事。

 yiqiandehuanjie，nanrenweilegenghaodidedao zheiyiduanguanlian，huijijizhudongzhuyaobiaoxianzishen，jiuhenxiangzhaopinmianshidequanguocheng，zaizhaopinmianshihuanjiechixuzhuyaobiaoxianzishen，dedao guanlianhou，tamensongleyikouqi，ganjuepingwenle，yincijinruletamenjuededeshufuhuanjie，xiangyouguanlianyibutouru。

 zheihuirangnvrenhenbugaoxing，ganjuenizhuishangwole，nijiushizheiyangla?nvrenhuiyoudianerfahuo，naizhinaonu。youyuxintaidegenggai，bianhuizhuyaobiaoxianzaiyuyanshang。zheishihounvrenqingxubuwendingdezhuyaobiaoxian，huirangnanrenganshoudaoshifendenanshou，yebianhuirangguanlianshengshu，naizhifanhuishangyigehuanjie(buquedingxinghuanjie)huoshishizhongduanguanlian。

zhishangsandian，jiushizheigehuanjiechangchangpengdaodenanti。

那麼女人应该怎么做呢?

●zuixian，nixuyaozhangwozheiyihuanjienanrendexinlizhuangtai;

shangbiandajiajiangguoqule，zheijiushinanrenganjuezishenzaoyigenjule“zhaopinmianshi”，guanlianpingwenle，gangkaishijindaoshushiquanle。

 yinci tahenyoukenengyibufangancehuayouhui，yibufangancehuazenyangrangniyiwaijingxi，yibulibaitianchulaiyongcan，henjiandanwozaijiali。

dantayiranshixinganqingyuanbanshide，henyoukenengburongyijijijinizuo，ganjuedouzaiyiqile，youyaoqiuniyinggaihuitide。

rutongniyizhizaibanyigexiangzi，nibandeqingkuangxia，ninengdianjizhemezhong，tayingdanghuilaibangwoba。

ernanrenhuixiang：nibanmeidong，yingdanghuijijishuochulaiba。zheijiushizheiyihuanjiedajialuojisiweishangdechabie。

 yaolejietamenbianshilan，bufangancehuayouhui，burangniyiwaijingxi，yibujijijinibanshibushibuaini，zhishizheiyihuanjienanrendagailvdoushihuichuxiandenanti。

 yinci qingganjianjiandibianpingpingdandan，shiyiqiezhengchangde，bingbushiniliangqingganchulenanti，zhishixuduo lianrendoushihuipengdao，shifoukeyishicouhe，jiukanjiexiaquzenmechulile，yejiushiwoxiangjiangdeshijicaozuoyibufen。

●dierdian，dandadijijiyaoqiunanrenjizijibanshi;

liru，libaitiantameiyoufenpeiyouhui，ninengjianyiwomenquliubingba，womenqushiwaibbqba，dajiaqukankanyishuzhanlanba。

 zongeryanzhi，biehaipa，shuochunixiangyaode。youyunanrenshixiangyaoxiezhuzishenxiaidenvren，nvrengenjutadexiezhuhuoshixianghupeihededao lehuanle，tamenyejiudedao lehuanle。

wojidewoyiqianyouyiweipenyouyuwoliaodao，yisichabuduoshi：

 zheixieniantabucixinlao，xiaochuqiannanwanxianjiankufendou，rujindedao lequdechenggong，keshitayuanyibazheiyiqiedousongjizishendenvpengyou、jianglaidelaopo。tagaoxingdihetashuo：