花镇退款成功的有吗？总是得不到男人的重视和宠爱？

 “huazhentuikuanchenggongdeyouma？musi，woweishenmeyizhihenanpengyouzhengchao，benlaiwoyijinghendiaojieqingxule，danhuanshimeishijixiaoguo，juedexinhaolei。”

yinciwoyewenta：“neimeiyicinizhengchaodemudishishenmeni?”

tabianshuo：“woshixiangshitagengguanzhuwoyidian，yijianshihaoyidian。

 nibushi yizhizhuzhong，jiaowobieqingxubuwending，bubisuiyidongnuma，yinci woyebiezhubufahuo，haohaodidehetajiangli，duitashuo，taneiyangzuobudui，yingdangruheruhe，keshijieguobudanbingmeiyouyong，tahaiyanfan，tayiyanfanyinweiwojiujinbuzhu，jiufashengzhengzhile。”

tingjianzhei，shifouganjuehenlejie，nishibushiyeyiqianchangshiyuninanpengyoujiangli，keshiyouyuanwufen?

 shide，youyukeguanshishishi，nvrenyaoshiyijiangli，nanrenjiufeichangrongyiduobi，ernanrenyiduobi，nvrenjiugengshanghuo，yiqianyayigandexintaigengweibaofa，fandaohuirangzhengchaobiandeyufabijiaoyanzhongqilai。

你需要问，为何女人会暴发?

 huazhentuikuanchenggongdeyouma？youyunvrenhuiganjue：“benlaiwoyijingdiaojieqingxule，benlaiwojiangdedadaoliquanshiduide，yemeiyoumanbujiangli，keshidajiananrenbudanbubian，naizhiliangejijizhudongdexintaiyemeiyou，zhenshitaikehenle。”

meiyoucuo，zheijiushizuirangnvrenshangnaodeyibufen。

 suihouhenduorenjiuzaizheiyiwoxuanlizhouerfushideyizhizhuanquan，fenbugushenbanyizhidehenanrenjiangli，zhizhijingpilijiele，yehuanshiwufadedaozishenyaoxiangdezheixiegaoduzhongshihechongni。

neiweihe，nanrenbenlailejienijuededeshiduide，danbianshibuyuanyigaini?

有两个缘故：

●diyigebianshi，bingbingbuyidingderendaolejiezishenbuduideqingkuangxiadoushihuiyoucankuigan，juedezishenbixugenggai。

 wotingjianxuduo nvhaidouhuisuku，shuozishennanpengyoubenlaizuobudui，haiyifu“wojiushizheiyang，nibunengjienajiubuyaohewozaiyiqi”dewulaixintai，banvshengqidebuhao。

shuozhenhua，xuduo nvshengdouxiangwenyiwentamennalaineimedadezixinhezihaogan?

 bianshiyouyutamencongyikaishijiubingmeiyouduizishendebuzhengquezaochengcankuigan，yebingmeiyoujuedezheiyibuzhengqueduizishendaozhileduoshaodeweihai。

 huoshi，shuodegengzhijieyidian，jiaruninanpengyouyeshineiyangdewulaixintai，neimejiudaibiaozhetayagenjiumeiyouyishidaozheijianshiqingdebiyaoxing，doumeiyoujuedezishenbixujinizuochuneimedadegenggai。

●diergebianshi，bingbingbuyidingderenyaoxianggenggaijiunenggenggaide。

 jiubirushuo，xuduo nvshengxiangshou，benlailejiezishenwanshangchidongxiduixiaohuabuliang，benlailejiechitaiduolingshihuitishengrentizhifang，danbianshiguanbulezui，nijuedenenggaizenmeban?

 zheijiushiyigerendezikongnenglihegenggaiqudonglidenanti，zaiwomenjuededaojieshijianfeihentongchu，henyougongzuoyalideqingkuangxia，bianhuibennengfanyingdexiangduobi，dianjizhebibushangmingrizaigangkaishijianfeishoushen，suihouyitiantuozheyitian。

 ernanrenzaipengdaoxuduo ganqingshangnantideqingkuangxiayeshiyiyang，tabianshixiguanyuanxiandefangfa，bianshiganjuegenggaitaitongchule，tamafanle，yinci jibian lixingshangtameiyicidoulejiezishenbudui，meiyicidoujinizhiqian，keshirentidebennengfanyingyiranhuiposhitazaidufancuowu。

yinci ，zhenduitiantiandenanyoudegerenxingwei，jiuzheiyangyigezhuangkuang。tabenlailejietiantianshuodedoudui，danbianshibuyuanyigenggai。

 youyumeirenxiaibeifouren，yizhiyubeifourenbeijianglideduole，jiuyaoxiangdikang，yaoxiangtuiyiwu，zhangciyiwang，jiubianchengle，tiantianyulaiyuyouxiedaolile，keshihenanpengyoudeguanlianqueyuezouyueyuanle。

那恰当的解决方案应当是什么呢?

shijishang，guanliandeshizhishizhongshisuoyaohetouru。

 shuobailedejiangli，jinguanmeiyouqingxubuwending，meiyoudongnu，danhuanshiyigesuoyaodequanguocheng，youyunizaisuoyao，yinci jiuguidinglingyifangtouru。

 ertatourudeyueda，niyejiuyueyikaotadetouru，tadeqingganjiuhuiyuebeihaofei，zhujiandeduinideguanxinliyehuiyulaiyujianshao，zheiyejiushiweihexuduo nvshengdoushihuiganshoudao，yikaishinanpengyouduizishentebiehao，yulaiyubuyuanyitouruheqinfendeyuangule。

 keshifanguolaide，ruguonizaitourudeqingkuangxia，bianhuikaolvlingyifangdexinliyaoqiu，zheigeshihouniranglingyifangjuedegengxiangyaoni，lingyifangjiuyuehuiyikaoni，gengxiangyaorangniganenhuikui，xiangyaoxiangniaijin。

shuodaozhei，henyoukenengyouxierenjiuxuyaowenle，neimewoyizhitourulingyifangxiguangaizenmeban，yinweiwobixuhonga。