花镇退款成功的有吗？夸男人这样说才有效！

 huazhentuikuanchenggongdeyouma？suhuashuodehao“liangyanyijusandongnuan，eyaneyuliuyuehan”，meiyigerendaoxinlidouqipanhuodetarenderentonghekuazan。

 jiaoyuxuexinlixuezhongyeduizanmeidegongxiaoyoushencengcidekexueyanjiu，dangyigerenzuodeshidounenggouhuodezanmeihezhenglianyijianfankuideqingkuangxia，tabujinhuigengxinxin，yegenghuichuxianyuanyuanbujuedequdongli，bashierzuodegengqiang。

 shijidaowojingchanggendahuoerliaodehunyinguanxizhong，xianghuzanmeiyeshishifenguanjiande。yitiandaowanhuxiangjingongchizelingyifangquexiandeliangren，haowuyiwenburongyizaochengyiqiehunyinguanxi。huxiangshangxihekuazan，shihunyinguanxidejiben。

赞美他人并并不是天生便会，只是个不简单的技术活。

 zairichangshenghuozhong，nihaowuyiwenyehuipengdaozheileizhuangkuang，youderen，fangfobuzenmehuizanmeitaren，tamendezanmeidouhuirangtarenganjuefeichangganga，naizhibudanburongyilingrenganjueshushi，fandaohaihuilingrenyane。

 zaiwangshangyouxierenwen“beibierenqiangkuashiyizhongnaxieganshou?”huazhentuikuanchenggongdeyouma？youyiweiwangmindehuiyingshifenshidang：“bianshijirenjuedemapipaidaomatuishang，shengseernankan。”

 wohaizaigenxuduo xueshengzixundeqingkuangxia，doushuodaoyaochangshiduokuayikualingyifang，goujianyizhongqinmiwujiangan，yetigaozijizailingyifangxinzhongzhongdeyouyuegan。shidudizanyangzishendelingyiban，huirangdajiadeqingganyuelaiyueyuebianyuehao。

danshiwofaxianle，xuduo xueshengburongyikuaren。kuabierendeqingkuangxia，budanzishennankan，lingyifangyenankan。

jinri，womenjiulailiaoyiliaoweihebenlaixuehuilezanmei，queyizhibujinrenyini?

一夸人沒有关键点—外太空。

 xuduo rendaokualingyibandeqingkuangxia，yingyucihuiliangtaidi，yinci zhiyaoshuo“nizhenhao”、“taibangle”、“nizhenlihai”……zheileiquannengmiaoshu，zaiyiqiechangsuoquanshishifenqianbodebiaoshu，lingyifangtingletihuiyeshifenbijiaoyouxian，youyumeiyouguanjiandian。

 quefaguanjiandiandezanmeihuilingrenganjuehenbuzhenxinshiyi。shexiangyixia，nifeijinxinligaohaoleyijianshi，quezhihuodelingyifangdeyiju“taibangle”。diyicinihenyoukenenghuihenshiyong，dierci、disancihou，haowuyiwenhuiganjuebuzhenxinshiyile，nihuoxuhuicaiyilingyifangzaifuyanleshini。

 yinci ，zaikuarendeqingkuangxia，yidingyaoliuyiguanjiandian，yejiushiduiyulingyifangdezhuyaobiaoxianlaikaizhanzanmei。lirulingyifangkeyijiniganleyizhuomeiweide，nikualingyifangduinideqingyi、kualingyifangzuochucaidesexiangweijuquanxing，bixubinijianyishuoyiju“taibangle”gengnengchudongneixin。

 shijishangzaizhirenyuanchangzhongyeyiyang，nikuayixingpengyou“jinridelingdaidapeihenhaokan”yaobilijikuata“nijintianzhenshuai”gengyoushijixiaoguo，lingyifanghuiyishidaonilijinglexixindeguancha，liuyilaidaotaxiangzhuyaobiaoxianchudeguanjiandian，dangranyebianhuiganjuenishifenzixi。

 wochangshuo，hunyinguanxili，goutongjiaoliuhenzhongyao。hanyouguanjiandiandezanmei，zishenbianshigoutongjiaoliudeyizhonghelifangfa，huiranglingyifanggenggaoqingchunidezaihu，niderenzhen，yinci gennijiaowangdeqingkuangxiayegengshushi。

二夸人頻率过高—很假。

 kuarenbuyaoshizhuzhongguanjiandian，haidezhuzhongpinlv。womenshuoyiqiedouzhangchiyoudu，guoquledu，bianhuidebuchangshi。kuarenyeshiyiyang，pinlvtaigao，bianhuiyouliuxupaima、guitiannandexingwei，yehuirangtarenganjuexuqingjiayi。

 shehuijingjixueshangyouyigejibenyuanlichengweibianjixiaoyingxiajiang，zanmeidepinlvtaigao，houbianmeiyicizanmeisuozaochengdeshijixiaoguojiuyuexiao。yongtongsuyidongshuobianshi，nikuarendehua，huiyulaiyuyiwenbuzhi。

 zailiao，niruguolaokuabieren，shifoutarenjiujianguaibuguai，zhujianfamanaizhishijuedeshenmeipilaole?yinci yaoxiangjinidezanmeichudongtaren，baochishihedepinlvshiwubide。

neiruhedepinlvcaisuanshiheni?tashiyinrenyousuobutongdede。

jiarulingyifangshiyigebuzixinderen，neimenibideyaoduokuayikua，kuadeqingkuangxiayeyaoliuyiyudiaoyaolveweifukuayixie;

 jiarulingyifangshigezixinmanmanderen，neiyongxindezanmeiyizhouyouyicijiuchongzule。liuyishiyongxindezanmeie，bingbushijianyideyiliangjuhua。