guangzhouhuazhenkeyituikuanma?youyiduanshijian,woshenpangjingshiyixieqingchanggaoshou,zaiqizhongyouyigeqingchanggaoshou,jiujiaotananaba。
tayizhibianshiqingchanggaoshou,congzhongxuedaogaoxiao,ranzhiguoduomingxiaocao。
youyicilibaitian,dajiayixingwurenxiangjuquyigeparty,shizaiyigebieshufanglibian,wogennanazuozhebieshufangdeshafashang,bierenzaiwaimiankaochuan。
ruobushiweilegenghaodicongtazheitaochulaitadetanlianaiqiaomen,wohaowuyiwenhuitianjiakaochuanjingbing,kaoyangrou、xiangchang、jichibang、zhujiaowoyigedoubuyuancuoguole。
kuachengdaoneiyangpianpidexiaochengshihuanshiyixiepijuande,wolisuodiyige“geyoutan”xianzaibuyishafali,xiangyouzheiyifenlansan;erta,xiangyiwangyiyang,beiyizhebuyishafa,shangbanshenladejiaozhang,yishoudazhekaobei,yishouqingqingdihuangzheshoushangdehongjiu。
turan,wonaohaizhonglishanchuyigexiangfa,jinriwoyezuoyigeguancezhe,kanyixiatajiujingyounaxiegaokaozhaosheng:zhongjiu,youtazai,douhuiyouxierenlaijisongkaochuande。
lvejianyiban,waibiandexiaohuoershifenqinlaodijitadenvwangsongguolailekaochuan,ziran,yebangwozheiyidengpaoshunshouledian。woqiaoqiaodekaojinnana,xunwendao:
“aiai,nikanhaonayige?worenweinageyishenhuiheisedexiaohuoerfeichanghao,jiutaba。”
nanabukuishiqingchanggaoshou,likejiwolaileyiju:
“nixiai?denghuierwojiangtaxiangxijieshaorangni。”
我讲:
“niderenwokehaipaqiang,nihuanshicunzhezishenxiangshouba。”
jianghuajian,zourulaiyigexiaoshuaigeer,henxiangwulaibandezhouyumin,yishenjichefu,shifenkushuai,shuaidewohaiguoyibuquwaizuole。ziran,xiyinzhuwobuhuijinjintadeshuai,yeyoutashoushangdeyipanshaokao。
taqingjingdixuehuifangxiacaipanshuo:“dajiachi。”
nanatiantiandishuo:“ganxie。”lianbuwailulveweidehaixiu,“wulaibanzhouyumin”huishenkushuaidilikai。
我悄悄的靠近娜娜:
“bujiunilianbudehaixiushifouzhuangde?”
“neiziran⋯⋯shizhuangdela。”
“buduiya,niyiguandeshejifenggebingbushitucaoxingma?ruhecicizouroumeiqingchunfengle?”
“ziranshiyouyuzheiyinanrenjiuheshizheiyishejifenggea。nanrenma,nidongdede,gouyinnideduo,zhenshizhuiqiunideshao,erzheiyiguishuyuco2xiangmutouzixingnanren。”
tingjian“co2xiangmutouzixingnanren”,wochadianermeibakouzhongdeshuiguozhiyikoutuchu,wojiang:“buhuiba,wozhiqianjiugennishundaitileyixiananshiguilei,niyaozhenfenchulai。”
娜娜说:
“guangzhouhuazhenkeyituikuanma?neishi。shiwozheiyijibena,nayangnanrenmeijianguo。rujinyinweiwolaidaowanhundenianling,ziranyaozhaoyigejingjifazhanbiaozhunhao、gujiajiaju、tengwo、kanjianshufudenanrenge。
keshinilejie,zheileibiaozhundenanren,xuduozhangzhezishendebiaozhunhaozaiwaimiansichugaoaimeide,shijishangbianshigouyinniyixia,burongyirenzhen。jibian zouruhunyinshenghuo,yeshineileigousandasibudaojiadezhu。”
jiexiaqu,tadakaishoujikanyixiataduinanrenkaizhandeguilei,manmandeyixianshipingdeneirong。zheiyaowohenshicaiyitabushidangchugenwoyiqiduwenshileideneigeguniang,zhishiguodaozhengduimianzheixielikebandepingfenshebei。
woruzuiruchidikanguoxialai,tayijunanrenzaisangecengmianshangdezhuyaobiaoxian,biaomingchulemeigenanrenxiangpipeidetexing。
yinciwojiang:“zhiqiannijiushigexiaoshanpao,yizhayidadui,danlibiandefeiqiwuxuduo 。errujinnishixunhangdaodan,nenggoujingquezhidao,bashijian、huolidouzijintourudaozuiheshiwanhundeneiyikuanshang。”
nanatianbushuo:“danshizheiyiguileijinjingedagaidequbie,ruguokeyizaixianliaodeqingkuangxiazhangwotamendeershi、tamenchengzhangdejingli。woyenenggougengweijingquedituiluntamendezhenzhengxingqing、tamenduiqinggandezhuzhongshuiping,yeyoutamenzhihoushifouhuixiangyaobangwomaibao。”
tingjianzheili,womingbaitabushizaishuodahua,youyushehuixinlixuezhongjiuhuiyoushifenzhimingderengetezhengjichulilun。
zheiyijichulilunshuodeshi,rengetezhiyouzhongduotexingzucheng,ertexingshiyizhongyibanhua、pingwenerzhangjiudexingdongquxiang,meiyigerendaotexingshangdoushiyoubuyiyangdezhuyaobiaoxian。weilegenghaodiduofajueyixieganhuozhishi,tingyitingqingchanggaoshouruhebazheiyijibenlilunyongzaitanlianaishang,woyejiletayiju:“shaoshuodahuabani。”
nanashuo:“nikana,waibianshifouguangweiliuchuanzheneiyangyijuhua——nanrennianqingdeshihouwangoule,jiehunlebianhuiwendingchulai。yixienvrenxinle,zhaoleneiyangdenanren,jieguobierenjiehunqianwan,jiehunhouranhouwan。
danshi,youdenanrenjiehunqianwan,jiehunhoujiuhenlaoshibajiao,yeshiyoudenanrenjiehunqiangangwan,jiehunhouyehenlaoshibajiao。zhongyaojiuqujueyuzheizhongnanrendezhonglei:“jiunabujiunagenanreneryanba,tababashizuomaimaide,zhangshijianzaiwaimian,tazixiaoyoumuqindaida,ertademuqinyizhidouduitashuoyaomingbaizhongshinvshi,jiangyixieshifenqiadangdehunlianjiaoyoujiazhiguannianchuandijileta。
●从第一个层面价值观念看来,他的核心是没有问题的。
yixienanrenjiandaonvrenmaigebaobaobianshuonvrenhuaxuewuzhi,zheibiaomingtamenjuedenvrenjiuyingdangjiejian,maiyigeputonghuojiangjiuyongjiukeyile——zheixierenbianshijiazhiguannianyoushenmewenti。
xuduo nvhaihuifajue,youshihouzishenjiangdeheqingheli,keshihennanshuofunanyou,shijishangyeshijiazhiguannianzaochenglemaodun。
wojiang:“neimeshuo,chuduixiangyeyaoxianyoufananrenjiangchuzishendechengzhanglichengge,niranhoujiang。”
●第二个层面就是以对外开放的视角而言。
taxiaixingqingrouhedechengshunvren,duixiandujiaoweidahuoyuyantedianjiaoweiqingfudenvrenbuganxingqu,keshitaipingpingdandandetayetaoyan,jianyanzhibianshixiaiwanshande‘nvliumang’。yinci duiyutashiwoxiangpipeideyuyanhebiaodaxingshi。
●第三个层面便是检测他是付出型人格還是索取型人格了。
fuchuxingrengederengengpianzhongyuduinitouru,dianxingxingdezhuyaobiaoxianbianshifengnianguojiehuimailiwu、nijiangdehuatahuijizaixinzhong;ersuoquxingrengederenhuigengweiquxiangyusuoyao,liruguidingnvyouzhufan、qingsao,nigentashuodaodianyaoqiubianhuixianqiniguidingduo。
ganggentachupengdeqingkuangxia,woyenenggougenjuhaoduogezhibiaozhifenbianchutashifuchuxingrengehuanshisuoquxingrenge,zheiyinanshengziranbianshifuchuxingrenge,zheiyejiushiweihewojiangtashi“co2xiangmutouzi”,jitamenqingxujiazhijiuhaole。
shijishangshuozhenhua,weiherujindenvhaiganjuechuduixiangnanyi,zheijiushiyouyuyijuzheisangezhibiaozhilaifenbian,heshiwanhundenanrenzhanbibingbugao;ercongnanrendetianxinglaisisuodehua,zheiyijilvhenyoukenenggengdi,youyunanrendebenxingbianshisichuxunshi。
rangnanrenzhongshidequanguochengshijishangshiyigexunhuadequanguocheng,ershibushinengqudechenggongxunhuashoutamendeqinzijiaoyuweihai。lirushengzhangfayuzaiyigebabamamaxiangaihemudejiazhong,tamenbianhuierwenmudu,gengquxiangyuzhongshiyulaopo,haohaodiyunyingjiazhong。”
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