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《jianai》zhongyouyijuhuafeichanghaodigoulelenannvguanxi：huazhenqingganwanhui，aishiyichangboyi，wubiweichishizhongyulingyifangnanfenbozhong、qiguxiangdang，caikeyizhangjiuyiwangdixiangshouxiangxi。

danshijizhong，tongchangnanyizuodaoneiyangdejunheng，zongyourenqingqisuoyou，jiangaibuyiyulidizengsonglingyifang，guoduotouruquemeiyoulixianghuadeganqingjieguo。

xuduo rendaofenshouzhihouganjuezishenbingmeiyoushenmecuowu，jiuwuyuanwugufenshoule。

“woduitahenhao，taweiheyaoxuanzelikai”。touruyingdangyouyigedu，shidangfanchoucujinganqing，chaoguozheiyifanchou，duibianjiebuzuaixi。

huishouxiangyixiang，niyizhizaitourudequanguochengzhongshibushibaoleile。

1、过多投入

yidanshenxianwenrouxianghenduorenbianhuishiqulizhi，haipashiqu，zishendesuoyoudouchenmizailingyifangderentilihelingyifangdeneixinshijieli。

xiangfangshefaququyuelingyifang，qipannenghuodetongyangshichangfenedeai。

rendebenxingquanshitanyude，tourudeshuipingruguobuzengzhangxiangdangyumeiyoutouru。

zheijiurutongershibabamamamailingshizhishi，jiedaodiyigelipinjibian jiagebianyiyehuishifenxiyue。

yihoumeiyicishoulipindoushihuiyuyiqiandelipinzuobijiao，yaoshimeiyouyiqiandeyoushiyongjiazhineixinbianhuidunang“ruhexuandelipinyulaiyuchale”。

rendebenxingshiwuzhijinde，jibian youzhelehaochanpin，yehuiyaoxianggengqiang。

tourutongyang，niyidanzhuanhuanweitouruzhederenwujiaose，lingyifangjiuxiwangnidetourushizengzhangde。

xiangyixiang，zaijiaowangdequanguochengzhongshibushiniyikaishijiutouruleguoduo，shilingyifangyuelaiyuegengjiatanyu。

2、投入的內容是不是为另一方要求

tourudequanguochengyidingsuizhezhegoutongjiaoliu，buranzuozaiduoquanshibaizuole。

lingyifangxihuanchiyu，nimeidunfandoubeihaolarou，lingyifangziranburongyilingqing，guoyibuquhuijue，zhiyoufuyanleshini。

jiaruzhangqixingbugoutongjiaoliu，zheiyixiaowentijiuhuiyanbianweibicizhijiandefenqi。

wojiangwojuedezuihaoshidewupinjiaojini，huazhenqingganwanhui，niyaokanbushang?neijinjinniyixiangqingyuandijuede，bingmeiyoubalingyifangdeniantoukaolvdaoyinei。

zaitayanzhong，ninenggoujiyudewupinhenyoukenengfenhaomeiyoushiyongjiazhi。

yinci dajiayizhizaizhuzhongshunshuituizhou，tashilingyifangnenggoujieshoudaoniaitadexinxineirong。

ruguoshikaolvnizijideyaoqiu，neizheiyishifangmubiaozeshita，erbushini。

bulejie、bulijiedeqingkuangxiajiuduogenjugoutongjiaoliuzhangwolingyifangdeyaoqiu，biemaoranxingdong。

3、放纵自己的投入，高投入期待高收益

 buguanzaishenmeqingkuang，biaozhunquanshinanyiyuyuede，meiyoudixiandeditouru，fangzongzijiditouru，tayuecuoguoni，fushangdeshiniziji。

yurenxiangchushizhishangshiyigeziyuanhuhuandequanguocheng，touruweixian，huodezhihou，youtourucaiyouhuode，youhuodelecaifeichangzhidebuduanditouru。

bulunshihuaxuewuzhihuanshiganqing，yidanchidakuihehuodedejunhengbeibaituo，bianhuizaochengbuhexiederenjijiaowang，dajianaizhiquxiangyuduobi、shengshuhuozhongduanzheileiguanlian。

fangzongzijidetourufangfazaoyibaituolerenjijiaowangshangdejunheng，nidetouruchixuleijiadaibiaozhenideshouyiyechixujilei。shijishangqingganzhongzuibihuidebianshiyibiantouruqueyouyibiansuoyaoshouyi，yaolejienidetouruquanshichuziyutongyi。

jiaruqiangzhisuoyaoshouyi，neibushi“yuyanbaoli”lema，lingyifangziranhendichuzheileigerenxingwei。

qingganzhongzuobudaokendingdegongzheng，neimejiuzhengdexiangduixingdegongzheng。

tourushiyigelaiquzirudehudongjiaoliuquanguocheng，shaoyidiandeshixin，yipingjingdexinlizhuangtaiduidaideyushi。