花镇情感挽回怎么样?聊天最不能犯的错误

huazhenqingganwanhuizenmeyang？chengqianshangwandenanhaihenvhai、lianrenhefufumeiridouhuihelingyifanggoutongjiaoliu。

dajiadouqidaihelingyifangyueliaoyuegaoxing。

 keshidabufenrenyouyuburongyiliao，bumingbailiao，yincibafenweigaodeyulaiyunankan，zuizhongzaocheng lingyifangbuyuanyunizaiciliaole。

shijishangliaotianshiyouyidingbiaozhunde，jiarunimeibawozheiyibiaozhun，jiufeichangrongyiyuelaiyuenankan。

 rutongboche，niwubixianhuidaopdang，lahaochache，suihouzaixiehuoguansuochi。keshihenduorenchangchangwangjilachache，yincicheliangqinierqu，suihoudaozhidaolujiaotongshigu。

jiarunihushiliaotianbiaozhun，neimanideaiqingyefeichangrongyichuanquanshigu。

neihushilenaxiedebiaozhun，zuifeichangrongyichuanquanshiguni?

1、无声胜有声

henanshengliaotiannibuyaoyizhibababadishuogebuting，nijuededeyueda，nanshengfandaoganjuenilaotao。

nixuyaoduoshizhexiabuyongshuo，youshibuhangshengchanshengdeshashanglibijianghuayeyaoda。

 lirunanshengniwenzaiganshenme，nixianyiqiezhengchanghetaliaoyihui，keshileisideqingkuangxia，nixuyaomanxialaibuyongshuo，bianshidayue10-ershifenzhongbuhuitaxinxineirong，neiyangshijixiaoguojiuchulai。

 yuanbenganggangliaodaohaohaodide，hurannimeixinle，suihounanshenghuigesanchawufanshoujikankan，huazhenqingganwanhuizenmeyang？tahuiwoweixinlemei?guoyihuitayouhuifanshoujichakan，tahuiwoweixinlemei。

 ranhoutahuixiangzhenijiujingzaiganshenme?zabuhuitaxinxineirong，cikedetahaowuyiwenbaizhuanaoxin。nikankan，neiyangshifoubiniyizhishuo，gengnengshitaduinihenganxingquni?

neileisideqingkuangxiashishenmeshihou?

 shixintaigaoxiedeqingkuangxia，bianshizhaowoliaozhaowoliao，niyouqibuyuanpaokaishoujideqingkuangxia。jiarunanshenghuinixinxineirongyouqikuai，neimacikeleisijiulaidao，zaizheiliyihouhuita2-3ju，suihouliketingyong。

dengguoqule20laifenzhongzaihui，huitadeqingkuangxiaqianwanbuyaobiaoshuniganggangquganshale，bianshiyaoshitaqucai，shitaquxiang。

tayuecaiyuexiang，bianhuiduiniyuexiai。

 rutonggaolengnanshenbuhuinixinxineirong，nixinzhongshifouyouwushuzhixiaomayizaipa?zhengquele，bianshiyaobazheizhongganjueshengchanzhizaojinansheng，neiyangtacaihuiduinigengyouxingquaihao，gengduiniyouganjue。

2、三顾茅庐

 sanguoliubeisancibaihuisanguozhugeliang，caikandao，jiarutadi1ci，di2cijianbushangjiufangqile，neimatajiuburongyizaidi3ciyushangsanguozhugeliangle。

 shijishangzheijiushiyizhongliaotianjiagou，zheileijiagoubingbushizaidi1cijiunengchuangjiande，zhishiyaozaidi3ciyihoucaijianjiandimingque，jiarunimeijianchibuxie，neimaniyejiumeifachuangjiannidexinliaotianjiagou。

zheiyeshixuduo tangmeichangchangpengdaodenanti，liruxuederangnanshengbanshi，jiudezanmeita。

 danshidangzishenquyongshifajueshijixiaoguobutaihao，yincilaihelaoshishuo，wobujiuzanmeilenanyou，tashuodaowozhaoshuta，wozhihoucongcibuyuanzanmeitale。

 wokuazhangfudeqingkuangxia，tashuodaowojingjitamenzhengzheizhongyoudemeide，qidewolikehetachaoleqilai，woganjuekuatafangfobuqizuoyonga。

 shijishangnijiuxiangdi1ciqubaihuisanguozhugeliangdesanguoliubei，meiyoupengdaosanguozhugeliang，yincicongcibudaobaihuitale，nijuedeneiyanghairuhebatashourunangzhongni?

 ruguonixuelezheiyifangfa，nijinyongleyici，xiangdangyunidexinliaotianjiagouhaimeiyouchuangjianqilai，nanshengyehaimeiyourongru，niyejiuxianglikechuxianfeichangdadeshijixiaoguo，wojuedeshijia。

 yinci nidejianchibuxiezuoyige3cizhishang，rangnanshenggangkaishirongruyunidexinxiangchumoshi，jiangnidexinjiagouchuangjianqilai，suihounixinxuedaodefangfacaiyouxiao。

ganwanbukeyijiyuqiucheng，yaoburanyiranhuihezhiqianyiyang，fenqiyidadui。

3、说坏不讲好

weishenmenanrenyulaiyubuxinganqingyuantaoqianleni?bianshiyouyuxuduo nvshengxihuanshuohuaibujianghao。

lirunanshengyoushihuijijirangnimaidianerlipin，lirumaiyigechungaole，maiyigebaole，maiyigehufupinle。

 cikenvhaibianhuishuoxieshenme，“yo，nannengkeguikandaokuaijiwosongliwu。nineimekoujingrandongdeweiwotaoqianle?jinritaiyangguangdaximianchulai。”

 yeyoudexifubenlaineixinhenkaixin，feidezuichunshangyongyixia，“youhuluanhuaqian，fuyoumaizheizhongdongxi，bibushangjihaizibaogeyingyufudaoban，zheizhongqianbibushangjifumumaidianerxinyifu。”

nihuoshengshengbananshengduinixiangmutouzidejiqingjichuimiele，tazhihouhairuherangnisongliwu，ruherangnitaoqianni?

jiadingtanayitianxinqingyukuai，xiangzaicirangnisongliwushi，tayidinghuixiang：

 “mailejita，tahaowuyiwenhuibugaoxing，tahaihenyoukenengzeguaiwohuluanhuaqian，woneiyangweitataoqian，huodedeshitademianse，suanleba，duoyishiburushaoyishi，bumailai。”

 nikankan，zheijiushinansheng，xuduo qingkuangxiabingbushinanrenaixinganqingyuanxiangmutouzi，zhishinijiangnanshengjinitaoqiandejiqingjichuimiele。

neiyingdangruhejianghaobuyongshuohuaini?

例如

aiyo，nizenmezhidaowohenxihuanzheiyi，woxianglehaozhangshijiande，niyijianshizhenbang。

 aiyowei，bushiwoxiangxianghaozhangshijiandeneigedongxima?tashisongwodema?zheijianzhisongwodema?nitaibangle，yibianshuoyibianwangtalianbuqinqu。

wohaoxihuanzheiyi，danshiyizhishebudemai，laogongwoaisinile。

suihouninengjiandaotayilianchunfengdeyi、kaolvdemoyang。

 nanrenshiyouqixiaitaoyigenvrenhuanxide，youyuneiyangnenggouzhengshitayougongzuonengli，yinci dangtataoqiantaonihuanxishi，yidingshuoqihaobuyongshuohuai，gulitaxiayicizaicijinixiangmutouzi。

 youyunanshenglejie，tataoqianninenggaoxing，tataoqianniyejiunengshuang，bingqienihenxihuantaneiyangyongxintaoqian，neimananshengjiudedao daojidademanzugan，zhihouyehuimishangjinitaoqian。

 shijishanghaodeqinggan，quanshigenjuneiyangdefangfatanchuqude，kexuduo nvhaihushizheizhongbiaozhun，zishenzenmekaixinruhelai，jieguoqingganyuelaiyueyulaiyucha。