花镇情感挽回怎么样?迅速拉近关系的方法是什么？

 huazhenqingganwanhuizenmeyang？qianjiri，houtaiguanlijiedaoyiweinvhaidetichuwenti，shuosaomaguanzhuhaozhangyiduanshijianle，yezaoyizhidaoyaoxiangxiyinzhuzishenxiaidexiaoshuaige，bukehuoquedeyibubianshiyaoxuehaoshifangchulaiioi，puluxuqiugan。

danshizishenzaoyizhuyaobiaoxiandehenxianzhule，weishenmelingyifanghuanshizuoguanchengbai，chedimeiyouyidianbeixiyinzhudeyuzhaoni?

woxunwenta，daodishizenyangshifangchulaixuqiugande?

 tashuo，bianshihuiweitazuoxuduo suishoudeshi，lirudaigezaocan，maibeixianmokafei，huozhetitachuliyixiegongzuofangmiandekunaozheixie。

 xiangtingwantadehua，jinbuzhushenxianlesisuo。zuixianhuanshiyaohaowuyiwentadezuofa，zhishaotazhidao，jinyoudangzishenpululexuqiugandeqingkuangxia，nanhaizicaiyoukenenglaizhuita。

 zhongjiu，muqiandenanhaizigegecongming，jueduibuhuidawusuoweiledezhang，yebuhuibaqiancaiheshijianxiaohaozaibugaiaiderendeshenshang。

jinjin，taneiyangdezuofaqueshinenggoulajinliangrenzhongjiandeguanlianma?

dajiaxianlaitingyigegushi：

1736nian，benjieming·fulankelinzaoshoulebinxifaniyazhoufalvdanweimouyilifaweiyuandezhengyedikang。

zheiweilifaweiyuanbudanchedidizhitadejianjie，haifabuleyipianyanshuo，shifenjiliedizhizelefulankelin。

 fulankelinbeishoukunhuo，keshiyouxiangzhengdedaozheiminglifaweiyuan。huazhenqingganwanhuizenmeyang？tatingwenzheiminglifaweiyuandegonggongtushuguanlicunyouyibenshifenbaogui、rangrenhaoqixindeshuji。

yincitashifengonggongjingjingxieleyifengxin，biaomingzishenxuduzheibenshudexinyuan，bingguidingtabanggemangbazheibenshuchujietadujiri。

 xiangbudaozheiyilifaweiyuanjuranyuanyile，mashangbashujilaila。dagaiyizhouhou，fulankelinbashuguihaita，bingqieyouxieleyizhangzhitiaobiaomingtawanfenganjideqingxu。

jirihoudangtamenzaiduzaicanzhongliangyuanxiangfengshi，fulankelinshineiyangmiaohuide：

“tajuranjijigenwowenhao(zhiqianconglaimeiyouguo)，zhihoudajiajiaotan，tahaibiaoming，renheshikedouxiangyaoweiwofuwu。”

cihoutamenlianggerenhuadiweiyou，zhongshenweichizheyouqing。

 yinci，hourendexinlixuezhuanjiamenbiandedaoyigejieguo：rangtarenduiniyouganjuedezuihaoshifangshibingbushiquxiezhutamen，zhishirangtamenlaixiezhuni。

zheijiushizhimingde“fulankelinxiaoyong”。

 yaoxiangfazhanqushigenlingyifangdeguanlian，liangzhezhijianyouyiquyuelingyifang，bibushanghuanyigegousi，qinglingyifangbangnigemang。bangwanniyihou，dajiadeguanlianfandaohuilajinhenduo。

 1869nian，shijiezuijiechudexiaoshuozuojiazhiyi，liefu·tuoersitaicengzai《zhanzhengyuheping》litidao：“dajiabingbuyindajiarangwomendeendianerzhongaitamen，zhishiyindajiajiyuletamenendian。”

 dajiadoutingguoxiaowangzidianyingjimeiguijiaoguandexiaogushi，dangxiaowangzidianyingfajuezhishiyigegongyuanlijiuhuiyou5000duojibenshanghetayouzhedechediyiyangdemeiguishi，shifendenanguo。

keshijibianruci，taneixinhuanshiwangbudiaozishendeneiyiduomeigui。

zhizhiyouyitianxiaowangzidianyingrumengchuxing，wozhongyumingbai：

suiranzheiyishijieshangchengqianshangwanduomeigui，dantamenqueshikumende，youyumeirenxiangyaoweitamensiqu。

 keshitademeiguiquebuyiyang。youyutaguangaiguota，weihuguota，peizhetayiqijianghua，peizhetayiqijianmo……yinci ，jiusuantajinjinduliyiduodoubizheiyiquanshijiequanbudemeiguijiaqilaidougengguanjian。

 ruguonizaiyaoqiulingyifangxiezhudeqingkuangxia，shijishangbianshizaizhengqueyindaolingyifangduinitouru，wulunzheiyitourushigerenxingweidehuanshijingshenshizhide，dangtatouruyueduo，jiuyueganjuezishenyuelaiyueaini。

zheijinguanshixianrendegongzuojingyan，danquebingbingbushipingkongniezao。

zaidajiajiang“shexinao”deqingkuangxia，cengtijiguoyaoxianggenggaiyigerenxintai，jiuxuyaoxianweihaizheiyirendexingwei。

 zheishiyouyu，xintaixuduo qingkuangxiashiduigerenxingweideguohoubiaoshu。jiarulingyifangbangleniyigemang，neimalingyifangbianhuijizijidegerenxingweidabian，“woweiheyaobangtani?haowuyiwenshiyouyutashigefeichanghaoderen!”

renzhishidiaohuishitashuodongzishen，rangzishenjianxinnishiyigefeichangzhidebeixiezhuderen，yefeichangzhidexiangchu。

zheijiushiwomenrendedanaojiyudeyijianfankui。

 shijishang，xiangtarenxunqiubangzhu，shiyigelisuoyingdanglisuoyingdangdeyiqiezhengchangshejiaomeitigerenxingwei，jiburongyizhuyaobiaoxiandejiaorouzuozuo，yejixiusedezishenzhaoleyigezhengdangxingdetuoci。

 dajiacengyouyigexuesheng，danlianletongqiyedenanhaizisannianlingyifangjuranjuebuzhiqingren，haibatazuoweiyigeyibandebukeyizaiyibandeyibanpengyou。

 taxunzhaodajiadeqingkuangxia，shuoyouyuzishenchedimeiyoutanlianaideganjue，yinci yagenbumingbaizenyangxiyinzhunanhaizi，zhiyouyanbabadekanjianzishenaiderenhetarenchaochaonaonao。

 zixunguwengaozhita，yaoshitakeyixianshuyingyongxunqiubangzhufa，jiunengkuaisulajinliangrendeguanlian。yingduilingyifangneiyangdegangtiezhinan，dajiajiuxuyao“bucilaoku”didongxiangtaxunqiubangzhu。