huazhenqingganwanhuizenmeyang?youxierenshuo:wozheiyishengganjuejiaonandekaoshibianshizenyangheaiderenliaotian。
shuoduolepadajiao,shuoshaoleyouhuishengshu。ermeiyiciliaoguotianzhihou,youhuiganjuezishennaershuodebuzuhao。
dajiadouqidai,heaiderenliaotian,nengyoumogaoxiaodezhuazhulingyifangmeiyigegeng,bingjimindefantiao,shizhongbugaliao,shizhongyouliaobuwandehua。
liaotianshiyimenzaoxingyishu,shiconghui,shiranglingyifangjuedeshushiqieyukuai。
zaimouqi《xiangwangdeshenghuo》zhong,dahuoerweizuoyiqiliaotian。
helaoshijiaoshiwendahuashuo,jiaruhelaoshihehuangleiwubizouyige,nitiaoxuansheizousheiliu?
zheigewentishijishanghaimanguguaide,dahuachiyilehaozhangshijian,zuizhongtiaoxuanlehuizhufandehuanglei。
heguishaxiaozhe,suihoukaizhanledangchangjutizhidao。
tashuodao,zaizheileizhuangkuangxia,shijishangbuzaihusheizousheiliu,youyusheilikaile,doubingbushixiangyangdeshenghuo。
tingqilaishifouyigeshifenlingrenpaishouchengkuaidehuida?dianxingxingdejihuidalenanti,youzhaoliaolaidaobeigaofangdexintai。
zaiyicifangtanli,youxinwenjizhewenhelaoshi,“dajiadoujuedenideqingshangzhishanghengao,nijuedeni?”
heguishuo:bushiwogaoqingshang,jinjinrangxianghudoushushieryi。
xiangyaochengweiyigeyouyouhuolideren,nixuyaoneiyangliaotian。
一、关心另一方体会
liru:ba“ena”,huancheng“meiyouwenti”
ba“suiyi”,huancheng“tingnide”
ba“buzaihu”huancheng“wookde”
ba“tingdedonglemeiyou”,huancheng“wojiangmingbailema”。
er、jijizhudongqinfen,taiyangkailang
liru:ba“wobuxiang”,huancheng“wonengxue”
ba“woyebuzhidao”,huancheng“wolikezhangwo”
ba“nibuxing”,huancheng“nizaiqinfenxia”。
三、明白忍让
我看了一个故事:
meiguoweiminvwangchangchangjiabanjiadian,changchangzaiyeshenrenjingdeqingkuangxiacaihuijiale,zheizaochenglelaogongdeqiangliebuman。
yitianyeli,nvwanghuanshijiabanjiadiandaoshengengbanyecaihuiwofang,heyiwangyiyang,tatiqianzhunbeituimenerru,quefajuemenbeisuoshangle。
yincigaoguidenvwangzhinengkoumen。“shei?”libiandeyigeshengyinzaiwen。
“wo,nvwang。”zaitahuidayihou,menlibianmeilefanying,menrengransuozhe。
huazhenqingganwanhuizenmeyang?yincinvwangzhinengzaicikoumen。“shei?”libianyouwen,nvwanghuida:“jiushiwo,weimi”,danmenhuanshimeikai。
nvwangzhinengzaidukoumen。“nishisheiya?”libianzaoyihenyanfan。
nvwangzongsuanyishidaocunzaidewenti,wenroudehuida:“jiushinidelaopo。”menkaiguo。
四、会恰当解决难堪
linzhilinheliangchaoweipai《chibi》hou,jizhecaifangshiwenlegeruilinanti:“nishibushizaiyiyuliangchaoweidegezijiongyi?”
linzhilinshineimehuidade:“worenweigeziwoshimeiyoubanfabaituode,keshiwoyuliangchaoweipaixiyemeibiyaojitamenxiaodengzi。
zaiwoxinli,nanshengdefengfanyuanchaoyugaokuanbi”yijuhua,jijiejuelenankan,youzanleliangchaoweiyoufengfan,yijuliangde。
renherenzhijian,shijishangbianshiyichangganqinglianjie。
womenyaogenju“jianghua”qubiaoshuzishen,zhangwotaren,jinxingxinxijiaohuanyutihuixiangtong,gengqiangdezhengqueyindaotarenshushuo。
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