huazhenqingganwanhuizenmeyang?yiqianwoxunwenguoxuduo deqiuzhuzhe,zaitanlianaidequanguochengzhong,heshishidajiazuishangxinzuiwunaideqingkuangxiani,henduorendoujuedeshiliangrennaobieniudeqingkuangxia。
ziranqinglvzhijianyoufenqishinanyibimiandeshier,shijishangliangrenyouxintaihuixianghuzhijianfaxiexuanxiechuqushihenyiqiezhengchangdeshier,bingqieliangren“rechao”buyidingbianshijiankendingdecuoshi。
youyuzaizhengchaodequanguochengzhongxianghunenggougengweiqingchubixumoheqidediqu,jiqibicibukeyuyuededaodedixian,youyuneiyanghuirangxianghugengweidizhangwolingyifang,zaimengliedexintaizhihouyehuitishengxianghudelejiedu。
keshiyixielianrenzainaobieniushifandaohuimaixiang“rechao”delingyigejiduanhua“lengbaoli”。
zailengbaolizhong,liangrenyongjianmolaihaofeixianghudeqinggan、huolijiqiduizheiyifenqinggandelianlianbushe,youyuzaiqingganzhonggoutongjiaoliushishifenguanjiandeshier,keshiyidanyiduiqinglvjinxinglengbaoli,neimaliangrenshichedimeiyouyiqiedegoutongjiaoliuhegoutongjiaoliu,bicizhenduixianghudeniantouyezhiyouquankaocaice。
youqishizhenduisixubijiaominganxizhidenvhaieryan,yeshiyijianhennanaohekunhuodeshier,keshizailengbaolidequanguochengzhong,rangnvhaixianqudixiatouqiuraotaojinhu,xuduo nvhaiyebiaomingmobukainageqingmian,keshiyaoxiangliangrenzaicihaohaodidezaiyiqidehua,jiuyidingyaoyouyigerenxiandixiatou,yinci dajiajinrijiulaihedahuoertaolunyixiazenyangzailengbaolishiranglingyifanglaijijixiangniditouqiurao。
●最先大家来剖析一下男士在“冷暴力”中的心理状态:
cong《nvrenlaizijinxing,nanrenlaizihuoxing》yishulinengkanchuqu,dabufennanrenzaixinqingbuhaoshi,huiquandoubuyongshuo,bashierzangzaixinzhong,chufeishilaidaozishenqueshimeifachulidechengdu,wubiguidingyouzhuyubierenshi,tacaiyaoshuochurukou,yaoburantaburongyijitarenzhaomafan。
youqishipengdaoshifenbukaixindeshiqingshi,tahuiyuelaiyueshifenqingjing,suihouhuizuanrutazijide“dongku”li,huazhenqingganwanhuizenmeyang?zuosiyouxiang,xunzhaochulidefangfa,jiarutazhaodaofangfa,zehuizuanchulai“dongku”xinqingyukuai。
keshijiarutayishizhaobuzhechulifangfa,tazehuizhaoyixiebiededeshierquzuo,bianyufensanhuatarujinxiaochendeqingxu,liruwanyouxi,kanshu,neiyangjiuburongyijizhongzhuyilibuzaikaixindeshiqingshang。
keshineiyangzuanru“dongku”denanrenjibierendeganguanbianshifangfojurenyuqianlizhiwai,erqieduizishendenvyoushifenlengdan,bunaifan,yehuiyuwulunci,neixindegongzuoyalichengdanyueda,zhuyaobiaoxianchuqudezheileitexingzeyuexianzhu。
keshiyidantazhaodaojiejuefangan,tabianhuilikezhuanguoshenlai,fanhuiyiqiandenageshanjierenyidenanyoule。
nanrenyouzheyishunjianguandiaozishendenengli,yeshiyouyishunjiandakaizijidenengli,keshinvxingzebixuchihuandeshijianlaimanmanguandiaohuoshidakaiziji。
zailengbaolizhongniyaoxiangranglingyifangjijiyueni,shijishangbianshiyinqilingyifangdeqingxubodongjiukeyile,neimadajiadeqingxubodongshangdoubaohannaxiexintaini,jiushi:“suoyouxinuailebei”。
●接下去我介绍一下这几类心态不一样的主要表现情况:
zuixian,congdajiabenshenkaolv,diyige“xi”,jiushizaibicilengbaoliyihoujilingyifangdaozhihushilingyifang,bingbingbushifeitabukedeqingkuang;
dierge“nu”,biaoxianchulainifahuodexintai,ranglingyifanglaihong;
disange“ai”,zhuyaobiaoxianchuquzishenderouruowunai,shijishangbianshirenrang,jiqinanshidebaohuyu;
disige“le”,zheigeshihouniyejiunenggouzhanshichunixuyaogangkaishixindeshenghuo,lejielexinpengyou,chupenglexindeshejiaoquan,neiyangyebansuizhenihuilejiexindeyixingpengyouhetaohuayun,nenggoujiqinanshideduzhanyu;
diwuge“bei”,bianshichuxianzaitadeshenpang,huoshishitaxiangqiyiqiandejiushi,qianruxianghudeziwoanshi。
●那传递出这五中心态的方法都有哪些呢?
zuixianjiarudajiashipengyou、tongxuemenhuoshizaoyitongjushenghuoledehua,keyichangchangkandao,zheijiufeichangrongyibaozhengle,yebuyongtaihaohuoliquyouyishengchanzhizaoyixiepengmiandejiyu,tashizuibianjiedeyizhongzhuangkuang。
keshiyeshiyouxuduo qiuzhuzhebingbushizheileimeirinenggoupengmian,naizhishiyiguolian、kuaguoliandezhuangkuang,dajiagairuhequchulini?neimazheigeshihou,dajiazhongjiandexianghupenyou,jiujuyouhenzhongyaodegongxiaole。
zheigeshihou,jiuxianshixinxichujindaolingyifangdejiaojiquanyouduomededeguanjian,yinci zhuweitongxuemenyidingyaoyouyuanjianzhuoshidahaojichu,xianbalingyifangdeshejiaoquan,hepenyouzhangwodeyiqingerchu,huibianjieyihouxuduo shier。
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