花镇挽回成功案例有吗？怎样建立自己的情感框架？

 huazhenwanhuichenggonganliyouma？dajiadeviphuiyuanxiaorugennanpengyouxiaojingchangzaijiaowangshijuanqimei，xiaochangjinguanyehuijindaonanpengyoudeyiwuhetayiqiyouhui，songtalipin，danxiaoruhuanshiganjuexiaochangshizai“kekeqiqi”erbushizhenshidegaoduzhongshizishen。

 youyuxiaochangmeiyicipengdaoshier，douburongyidiyishijiangenzijishuo，erjinjinjingjingdifaqunneiyeyouzaiweixinpengyouquandiaokan，zishenzuowei“nvyou”jingranbingbushidiyigelejie，taganjuezishenqingshile……

bingqiexiaorujingchanghuiyouyuxiaochangtongdianhuaerdanxin，tadanxinmaikefengzhengduimianhuishibiedenvxing……

 jinguantayelejieyoushihouzishende“danyou”henhaoxiao，dantabianshikongzhibuzhuzishende“xinfanyiluan”，jiaruzaineiyangxialaidehua，xiaoruganjuetamendejieguoyidingburongyishizishenqidaideneiban。

 taaizhexiaochang，yaoxianghetawanhun，shubuzhirujindetayishidaozishenchuxianlenanti，quebuqingchuzishendenantijiujingchuzainaer，yincitaxiangqilezhaoqingganzhuanjialaixiezhuzishen。

 zaibizhaolejigezuzhihou，xiaorutiaoxuanletanlianaifazhanxuehao，youyuzaiyuzixunguwenzhushoutangtanggoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，tatihuilaidaozheiershenhoudeshehuixinlixueqifen，zhushouhaishizheiban，zixunguwenyidinghuigengbang，yincitajienatiyizhuisuidafangzixunguwenxuexipeixun。

 dafangzixunguwenyongyou shiwuniandeqingganzixungongzuojingyan，zaiganqingtiwen，nannvguanxigoutongjiaoliuheliangxinghunlianjiaoyouxinlishudaocengmianyongyou henduodejingdiananli，zaiyingduixiaoruzheileizhuangkuang，dafangzixunguwenyizhenjianxuedeqiangdiaoxiaorudenantiguishugantaidi，youyouyuxingqingnantiburongyibiaoshu，erxiaochangdenantiyequjueyu“burongyiaidebiaoda”。

 youyuxiaorujihubukeyicongnanpengyoudeshenshangganshoudaoxingfudeganjue，huazhenwanhuichenggonganliyouma？yinci caihuiyizhizaiqingganzhongjinxiaoshenweide。dafangzixunguwendechudejihuafanganshi：

 genjuxiaoruzishendeqiadangbiaoshu，laizhengqueyindaoxiaochangqu“zhuyaobiaoxianai”weicilaikaolvxiaorudeqingganxuqiu，weijiedaotademeiyouanquangan，tuidongtamendeqinggantiwen。

 shubuzhixiaoruzuibushanyudebianshibiaoshu，youyutadexinhenhuang，yijianghuajiuyuwulunci，yinci guoduanbuyongshuo，erxiaochangyeshigebushanyancide“gangtiezhinan”yinci jiudaozhile：

“dajiabicixiangai，quequandoubuyongshuo，suihouxianghuwujie”de“liangjihua”

neiyangde“qianzaixingweiji”zaiyici“banlangtuanexingshijian”zhongbaofale。

 neiyici，xiaochangdehaopengyoujiehun，xiaochangyaoqudangbanlangtuan，touyitianyelixiaoruwenxiaochang“yaobuyaozishenqu”xiaochangshuo“buxuyaole，tayigerensuihouxing”。

 xiaochangneiyangdehuiying，rangxiaoruhentoule，taganjuexiaochangshixianzishen“fulei”yinci caibuyuandaizishen，xiaochangshizhongbapenyoufangdaozishenyiqian，yincijiuzhaodafangzixunguwenqingtu。

dafangzixunguwenjiugaozhixiaoru：

 “youyunizaiqianyishizhongliganjuezishenbubeigaoduzhongshi，bianhuichixushoujizhijiezhengjuquzhengshinimeibeitagaoduzhongshi，yinci yuexiangbianhuiyuejiaolvqingxu，suihoupingdingtabugaoduzhongshini，niyoumeiyousisuoguotabuxunilaidezhenshiyuanguni”

 dafangzixunguwenjiuzhengqueyindaozhexiaoru“meiyouchengjian”dequsisuo，bataxiancong“xintai”lijiefangchulai，dedaole“xiaochangyouyushibanlangtuanyinci yaozhuzaineili，xiaorujiarugenqudehuatayeyaosongxiaoruhuijialeyitang，yilaierqujiaoweibubian”dejieguo。

 suihoudafangzixunguwenjiujilixiaoru，rangtaquwenxiaochangshibushishiyouyuzheiyiyuangu，tacaibuxuzishengenqu，xiaochangshuo“shide”yincixiaorujiuduixiaochangshuo：

“wohenxiangheniyiqiqu，youyunenggenniduodaizaiyiqi，jiusuanyelizishendadehuijia，jiusuanhenbubian，wohaixiangyao”