花镇收费5900,遭到背叛后应该怎么做

 ruguonichajuezijidezhangfuyongyou，yingdangruhechulizheiyijianshierni?huazhenshoufei5900zheigeshihouniyaoxianpingjingxialai，xiankanyixiaxiabiandewenzhangneirongjiqilijingzishendeshenzhongkaolvyihou，zuoyigerangzishenburongyiganjuehouhuimojidejuecejiuxing。

1.问一下自己：能够原谅吗?

 zhenduilingyibanyijiaocailiangzhichuan，youxierenyinaizhimingtiaoxuankuanrong，youxierenquejuede「yicibuzhong，jibaiciwuxu」。zuojuedingyiqian，zhaoyigeshijianhekongjianyurenxiangchu，dujueshenbiandehaozimei，wenyixiazijishibushinengyuanliang?tingqingxineixinmiandejuede。

2.接纳内心的刺

 pietuotichufenshoushiduantong，rihouduziyirenzhishang。danjiarunitiaoxuankuanrong，nijiuxuyaojienanideneixinshizhongdoushiyouyigenci，naizhibianchengyidaowufatianbudeshangba，bieqidainimendeqinggannengzhongguiyuhao。

3.检查自身

 yiduanguanlianchuxiandisanzhe，biranshiliangrendeguanlianlichuxiannanti，huazhenshoufei5900jinguannanxingchuguixingweishipanbian，yinyoutarennanpengyouyebushidui，dantamenbuyidingcuoshai，chengxindijianchazishenzaizheiliduanguanlianlidebuwei，shibushizishentaiguanzhelingyifang，lingzishenyuelaiyuewuguanjinyao?shibushizishenmeiyouhaohaodihuiyinglingyifangdeyaoqiu?daozuizhong，henyoukenengjiushiniyoufencushiwaiyudekeguanshishi。

4.不必发狂

 tangruonitiaoxuantiaoming，nanguonaonushinenggou，dandangzhongzhiwenshiqingbiedashengpaohou，jinjibaochilengjing。ruguonanpengyouyagenjuecelinierqu，niruhepaohou、youkuyounaoyewanliubushangqinggan，naizhihenyoukenengtishengta「wolikaimeiyoucuo」dejuece;fanguolainichaolizhidijiejue，taquehenyoukenengbeinidelizhisuohezhu，baocunyixianguaiwandekongjian。

5.不用将自身与第三者较为