冷爱老师靠谱吗?五年的女朋友分手了，想要挽回该怎么做？

 dajiadoulejie：jiarunanrenshuotichufenshou，neibianshiqueshizaoyiyaoliangle。eryigenvrenshuotichufenshou，tongchanghuanshiyoujidadehenyoukenengfuhexingde。neimazishengaizenmewanhuinvyouni?lengailaoshikaopuma?xiabianwojiuduinishuohaoduogewanhuinvyoudefangshi，rangnideaiqingbucongzishendeshenpangxiaoshi。

挽回感情一、变成盆友真实身份

 ruguoniyaoxiangwanhuinvyoudeqingkuangxia，shifouhenduorendoutiyinisipilailian?zheiyifangshishizuibukequde，neiyangzongshirangtaduijinidichudexinlizhuangtai。qiadangdefangshishibianchengpenyouzhenshishenfenhetabaochilianluo，jinguannishiyixingpengyoudezhenshishenfen。danhaiyaoliuyibubizongtilianluota，bubiyizhinianzheta，zheibushiyigepenyougaizuodeshi。niyinggaiyoushihoulianluota，huanyizhongxinlizhuangtaihetaxianliao，neiyangzhangqixingjiulezhihoujianxintahuiduiniyongyou yizhongyilaixing，haikeyirijiushengai。

挽回感情二、理智

 fenshouzhihoujinjibubiziganduoluo，nvhaixiangnimingquetichufenshouzhihou，nihenyoukenengshifendeshangxinnanguo，naizhiyitiandaowanmomoliulei，yemeiyoushiyu，youxierenjuranhaixiangqizijin。nanguosuiranshiyoude，dantaiguoqulebianshishifenyumeidegerenxingwei，nvhaibingbuhuiyouyunideshangxinerfanhuinideshenpang，yebuhuiyouyunideziganduoluoerzaicigennizaiyiqi，tabuyongyigeruozhe。lengailaoshikaopuma?niqiadangdezuofayingshizuixianyaolizhi，xiufuniyiqiandeshenghuozhuangtai。

挽回感情三、换位思考一下

 nvhaidexinsikenengshixuduodixiongfeiliqucaide，yigedajiadexinlidajiameiyoubanfawanquandequzhangwo。keshiwomenkeyigenjujiaowangdeyixieguanjiandianlaizhangwolingyifang，zaizhangqixingguanliandeyunyingzhongdajiachangchangyaohuanweisikaoyixiayixia，tangruonishinidenvyou，ninengxiairujindezishenma?

挽回感情四、复合型的姿势

 xuduonanxingpengyoudoushihuishuo：“wohaishiwangbudiaolingyifang，wohennanshou，yinci woyebatayuechuqu，suihougaozhitazishenxiangfuhexing，danshilingyifangyagenbudaijian。wogaizenmezuo?”meimeitingjianneiyangdehua，wodoushihuiganjueyouqigaoxiao，zishenbushufule，weilegenghaodibuxuzishenbushufu，yinci caixiangqifuhexing，yiqiedoushimousiyu，lingyifangweiheyaotongyifuhexingni。ruguofenshouhou，nixiguanmeiyouta，bubushufule，neinijiuyibuquzhaotaleba。neiyanghuiranglingyifangganjuezishenbianshinishoushangzhaozhijilai，huizhijiqudegongzi。ruguowomenqueshixiangfuhexing，jiuquchuzishenxiangfuhexingdezishichuqu，erbushiguangpingzuibianshuoshuozishenailingyifang，zhishiyaotouruxingdongdeailingyifang，jiaruxingdongshijianhuodongle，lingyifangxianglaiyehuiganshoudaoniduitadeai，tashunlichengzhangbianhuifanhuinideshenpang。

挽回感情五、提高自己的谈恋爱水准

 dajiadoulejiewulunnaxiesaishiquanshiqiguxiangdangcaiquwei，ganqingyeshiyiyang。jugejianyideshili，ruguoshiyichangquanjisai，yigechengrenheyigeshaonianertongshidiren，ninengraoyouxingqudequkankanzheicisaishima?haowuyiwenburongyi，zaiganqingzhong，womenyaochixudetigaozijidepaiwei，xuexipeixunjiujingruhequchuduixiangcaihuizhangqi。lengailaoshikaopuma?zairichangrichangshenghuo，womenkeyigenjuduoyuyixingpengyouxiangchu，yuyixingpengyoujiaowangzheixielaitishengzijiheyixingpengyoujiaowangdeshuizhun，nvshijuedaduoshuquanshilixingde，nigenjupingchangdeleiji，zishenhaowuyiwenbianhuihuizongchuyitaobuhuotamenniantoudefangfa。