fenshouhoushi1geshouhuanyingdehuatitaolun,jibenshangzaimeiyikechuxian,neimazhenbuzhidaofenshouhouzenyangfuhexing?fenshouhouzenyangbaituo?fenshouhouzenyangkuanweini?meicankaodaanmeishier,wonengrangnimouxietiyi。
一、分手后怎样挽回
yinweizishendeyuangu,youhuoshiniyaozaiciwanhuimeiduanganqingdeneishihou,gujinibidinghuiwen,fenshouhouzenyangwanhui?feichangjiandan。
1、最先先理智
fenshouhouzenyangwanhui?zuixianmianduixianshi,zhongduanlianluo,weizijilizhiqi,diaozhengqingxu。zhongzhihelingyifanglianluo,wanbunengdishengxiaqi,gengbukeyisipilailian。ganqing,heyouyixiangtong,shikenqiubudaode。nichuxiandeyuejingchang,lingyifangyueduoxiangtaozou,naizhiyulaiyuxihuanni。guoduobiaoshuyaoqiugan,huizaiwuxingzhizhongjianshaozishendeshiyongjiazhi,ranglingyifangganjuefenshoushiqiadangde。jilao,daotuishiyibiangengqiangdeqianxing。nenggoushidubiaoshuzishendehuiyiheshangxin,dandiandaoweizhi,bunengguoduo。shuoqingbielianluole,jiuzhongshita,linshiduanlian。tashuozhiyoudangpenyouxiangtongjiaowang,yezhongshita,jiudangpenyouneibanlakaijuli。zheiyiduanshijian,xintaishijiaoweixingfende,xianweizijimeiduanlizhideshijian,rangxintaizhuangtaipingjingchulai,shizhezijintouruzuoxiexiaideshiqing,rangzishenfanmangqilai。xianxiufu1geyiqiezhengchangdezishen,nenggouzuochuqiadangdeshiqing。
2、思考
fenshouhouzenyangfuhexing?ranhousikaobenshen,xunzhaonanti。fanshengzijizaizheiyiduanguanlianzhongyoushenmechucuo,xunzhaonantidezhongyao。zhinengxunzhaocunzaidewenti,caiyoujianghuihaohaodichuli。jiaruhetayeyoutongxin,nenggoujianlvedegaozhitanidesikaoyiju。biaodanilejietadejuece,dequeshizishenbutaihao,niguannianlaidaocunzaidewenti,bingjuecezaijianglaiqinfendiaozheng。shuomingzheizhongjiuchongzule,xianbubitifuhexingguiding,zhibixuranglingyifanglejie,nichedilejieta,keyile。jiexiaquyaogengxingaizaozishen,weijinhouduitachuangjianercixiyinzuotiqianzhunbei。conglidaowaidegaibianxianzhuang。liru:huanyihuantouxing、genggaiyizhe、shizhexinshengshiwu、xuexinwupin、jiaoxinpenyouzheixie,rangzishenganjingzhengjie。erqieyoushihou“wuyijiande”rangtajiandaonidegenggai。dangnigangkaishizaicixiangyouzishendeyishizhuxing,erqieguodeduozhongduoyangfengfuduocaideneishihou,lingyifangjianghuihuizaicisikaoyunidefenshou,naizhigangkaishicaiyizishendefenshoushifoutaiqinglvle。
3、再次联络
fenshouhouzenyangwanhui?fujianlianluo,zhanxianzishen。fenshouhouzenyangwanhui?yiquanxindewaimao,zaiciqudelianxi。shiranglingyifangjuededaziran,nenggoushengchanzhizaomouxie“buqierzhi”,shengchanzhizaomouxiewuyijiandebingji。genghaoxiangzhongjiudeyuanfen。zaibujingyidepengmianshi,bixububijizhexianluzishendefuhexingyaoqiu,yebieyouyixianshixinxizishendegenggai,bubiranglingyifangjuededaogongzuoyali,zhishiguanzhuyixiaxiataguoderuhe,huoshidajiazhiqianyounaxiexianghudehuatitaolun,nenggouqingqingsongsongdeliaoyiliao。jiarutabingmeiyouxianluchulaidichu,yiduanshijian,nenggoushizhezaiyue。bujingyidelijingzhiqiantianmeiyouhuidediqu,wuyijiandetidaoxianghudemeihaojiyi。zheizhonghuiyi,huirangtazaochengxintaigongmingdian,rangtajianjiandizaiciduinizaochengganqingyaoqiu。jiarushanyuwenbenbiaoshu,nenggouxiexinjibiaoshuzheizhonghanyi。xintaibixuyaolizhipingjingwenroutitie,qiewushiya。
4、bawojihui,xiufulianluo
fenshouhouzenyangfuhexing?xiufulianluoyihou,yaoshiwobuzhuyaobiaoxianchujibukenaidejinbi,lingyifangtongchangburongyihuranzaiduxiaotui。jiaruyouwanhuidegailv,ciketongchanghuichuxianmouxiefeichanghaodejiyu,qiewucuoguole。liru,zaitaxinqingdiluodeneishihou,yexuhuirangnifazheitiaoduanxiaoxi。huoshi,zaitatingjiandajiayiqianlejiedeyishougequdeneishihou,dadonglejiyishenchudemoudianmianruan,yincifazheitiaodongtaixingbiaodaqingxu。zheizhongbujingyidejijilianxi,biaomingtazaineishihouxinliduiniyiranyongyouhuailian,naizhilianlianbushe。huoxuyaoganjinjiyu,zaitachuzaizheileixintaiqingkuangshi,lijilianxi,naizhinenggouyuetachuqushenqingbiaobai。
二、分手后怎样摆脱
1、最先思索
xuduorenhuiwenfenshouhouzenyangkuanwei,ninengrangtafenshouhouyihoubixuqingbiehuaiyouyiqiexiangxiang。wojuededaduoshurenfenshouhouyihouzoubuchuqu,douyouyuduiqiannvyoutianmanxiangxiang。tamenganjueruguozishenzaizuoxienaxie,lingyifangjiuhuizaicifanhuizishenshenpang。keguanshishishidabufenganqingwanbiyihoudouwufazaipojingle,yixindehuaizhexiangxiang,zongshishizishendanxinzaishiliandetongkuzhongzoubuchuqu。huoxucikeninengganjue,ruguoyaoshidajiashihenheshideliangzhini?manmancuoguoletaiyihanle。neimazaifenshouzhihou,hebuwenyiwenzishen,jiarudajiazaici,xingfuganmanfenchengfeichangdehua,dajiazhongjiandexingfuganhuiyoushiduoshaofenni?jiaruchengjizaiqifenzhizhong,neimajiutiyinifangshouba,niheshixunzhaogengqiangde。youyudajiagaoshangfenshouzheibu,dajiadeganqinghaowuyiwencunyoumouxienanti,jiarudajiayiqizaicidexingfuganbingfeihengao,neimazaiciyiqihou,zheixienantihuirengrancunyou,dajiahuoxuyouhuixiangsheqi。
2、该干什么干什么
biruhaohaodigongzuozhong,nulixuexi。huoxuniyaoshuo,shilian,qingxuyizhengpiancaogao,benzhimeiyouqingxuhaohaodidequzuozijigaizuode。xinqingyumen,nenggougenjumouxiefangfaqudiaojiezishenfenshouhoudexintaizhuangtai,keshizheijuebushifangrenzishenbunulixuexigongzuodetuoci。ninengjinliquzuozishenxiaideshiqingrangzishendexintaishengqilai,bixuyaorangzishentongyixingdongqilai,qiewutailansanxiaochendeyingduizishendeyishizhuxing。
3,weizijiyidianershijian
shilianhaixiaitagaizenmeban?dangnifenshouhou,nihaihuichangchangxiangdaota,zheihenyiqiezhengchang,rongxuzishenquxiangta,huailianta。keshidoushigaohaodiertiaosuotijide,zuozijigaizuodeshiqing。huoxuxuduorenhuiganjuezuozijigaizuodeshiqingheweizijishijianzouchuquyouyidianermaodun。tamenbingfeiduilimiande,zuozijigaizuodejiushizhitongyixingdongshangyingtongyixingdongqilai,erweizijishijianzouchuqujiushizhicongxintaizhuangtaishangeryande。ninengyimiandianjizheqiannvyou,yimianhaohaodigongzuozhong。bubiyouyidebixuyaoxunsuwangdiaolingyifang,yebubitaixiaoji,ganjuezheiyiduanganqingnihennannanyishihuaile,yaojianxin,liangsannianhou,dangnizaizaiciyingduineifenganqingshi,nibidinghuigengkeguandeduidai。
4、小结成才感受
xuduorenhuiwenfenshouhouzenyangkuanwei?wojuedenenggougentashuo,meimeiduanganqing,wulunzuizhongdexiachangruhe,yewulundajiajiaowangdeshibushikaixin,jianxinzaizheiyiquanguochengzhongnibixuyouganshou,nikeyiquxiaojiezheizhongchengcai,neiyangdangnixiangdaozheiyiduanganqingshi,ninengduoyidianfanmianxintai,ershaomouxiemaiyuanchizeyunaonu,dangnishunxiangyingduineifenganqingshi,jiuhuigenghuoda,yegengyouyiyuzounichuqu。
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