失恋这件小事要应放松心态去面对

 shilianlezenmeban，huanshichaoxihuanta，zhendeduibuqi。niwojuedenenggouzhaoyixiaxiafenshouhouzixun，huoshiyounaxieyouxiaodejianyirangni，zhenduifenshouhouneijianxiaoshiyingdangyonglianghaodexintaiqukandai。

 nvhaifenshouhouhaixihuanlingyifang，pengdaoneiyangdezhuangkuang，nvhaitongchanghuishouzuwucuo，douhuixiangshilianlezenmebanni？douhuixiangwanhuiba，youganjuediurendiumianzi，buwanhuibaneixinyouwangbudiao。qidaihuazhenfenshouhouzixunnengrangninicankaodaan。shilianhuanshixihuantagaizenmeban？nikeyikaolvdaoxianishibushinenggoujienanifenshouhoudezheiyikeguanshishi。

 lingyifangjiranyouyujianyisiqianyunifenshou，zheiyineishihoubixushilingyifangganletiaoxuande。zuixiansheqiderenbixushizuikaishixiangdetongde。niyizhizaizheierqianxinwankuxihuanta，xianrujinzaoyibianchengzishenshahuhunuli，erlingyifangmeiyoudafu，zheibingbushiganqing，zheizhiyouchengweidanlian。yebingbushilingyifangfenshouhou，lingyifangjinjinzhaodaozishenzhenshiyuanyixunzhaoderen，buranyeburongyiyunifenshou。xuduoneishihouyijianqingxinshiqueshi，jinjinzheijianshiqingchanshengzainishoushang，fenshouhouneijianxiaoshiquehuijinijuededaofenwaideyoushang。keshiniyewuxuyinerertaishangxin。youyuguishuyunidenagenanhaierhuoxudouhaimeichuxian，bierangyouwentiderendaiqushideni，niliangjiranbukeyizhangqixingxianghuzhijianxiyinzhu，fenshouhouduinieryanyebuyidingshishacuoshi。neimashilianlezenmebanni？

一、有木有挽回的将会

 dangniqueshihuanshiwangbudiao，neimaxiangxiangyoumuyounizhuandegailv。dangniqueshixiangwanhuilingyifang，zheiyineishihounihaiyaoyoubixudeduicehezhimou。jiaruganjuezishenzhihuixingbuzu，ninengquzhaomouxieganqingjiaolianyuanlaichuxinzhao。zhongjiuaiyigerensuibianjiusheqile，haizhensuanbushangxihuan。wangricengyoujinyuelinxihuanqinvzilinhuiyin，zaitajichendeneiyitiantongchuluolei，beitongyujue，genghekuangzuoweiganqingxiaodongwuzhichengdenvshengni？xuduoshierzhinengqinfenlecailejiekebukeyi。keshiruguosheqihaowuyiwenshimeiyouqidaile。

二、加强你自身的本能反应

 renzheiyibeizizhongzhongguinenggoujiezhudeshizishen。ruguonizishenyuelaiyueqiangjingdeneishihou，jiuhuifajuebiedederendoushixiangnikanqi。youshiwangwangwufaliuzhunanrenxin，bingbushiyouyuwobuhaokan，zhishiyouyuniyaobuzuqiangjing。wojuedenanshengbinvxingdouhenshiji，tamenyizhibuduanzaijiaowei。youyugenjujiaowei，talejienaxieduitaeryangengyouyi。tawangwangtiaoxuanfangqini，neidoushitashensishulvdejieguo。jueduibingbushinixiangzhedeqingganyaosu。rutongxuzhimozhuiqiuwanmeilinhuiyin，wojuedegangkaishijiazhongyaosujiujueceletadebuchenggongxing。xuduoneishihoubingbushininaerbutaihao，zhishiniyaobuzuqiangjing。dangnichongzuqiangjing，lingyifanghuoxubenzhijiubushedegennifenli。renyizhizisizili，pengdaogengqiangdewupinjiuxiangdedao，tashiqiangububiandezhenzhi。zhenduifenshouhouneijianxiaoshi，zhiyouyonglianghaodexintaiquduidai。

 shilian，haixihuanta，haiyaozaiaizhongxuehuifangxiayuaixi。niyaobumianduixianshixuehuifangxiata，yaobujiunizhuanwanhuita。keshibuguanzouninatiaolu，fenshouhoubixuweichikaixindegongzuonengli，nibixuhaijideqiangjingzishenbiquandouguanjian。youyubulunshiganqinghuanshihunyinshenghuoli，zishenqiangjingquanshihunyinshenghuodezengchouji。shilianlezenmebanwangbudiao

三、刺激性正确引导法

 fenshouhouqinei，henbixufenshouhouzixunbangni，ruguoniyizhixiaochen，huailianguoqudezhuduo。youyideyazhezhiyoushinilinshiyiwang，dangetianzhengkaiyanjing，laile。“meiquxiang”jiuqueshinengbuyuanma？“yuanyiwang”jiuqueshinengwangdiaoma！rendeguannianyizhihuifanxiangerxingzhi，niyuexiangwangjidewupin，tayuexianglaixiang，niyizhiqidaiquwangdiao，pianyaoyouwangbule。ruguonizaojiulianchu“xinruozhishui”deshijian，buran，yishehuixintaixuekexueyanjiuxianshixinxi，linshizhenyaxintaiheyizhigousi，zongshirangxiayibuhuibiandeyuelaiyuedetongchu。yincizheiyifangshibingbushizantongtaiguoduchuantong，fanguolaidi，changdao“yidugongdu”，rangzishenxiangdaozheixiejiniluoleideshier，xiangzheixiechuyudaonidaodedixiandeshi，jifanidexintai，zhizhifanyingqupi，juedemamucaixing。dengzhenixiangqimeiyoushenmekexiang，yejiuganjuewuqule，yejiumeiyoushenmehenxiangdele。lianqing：lianqingbeifenshou？qinglujianxin？

四、诋毁他法

 shilianlezenmeban？dangfenshouhoushi，gengyingdangxuehaokanren，kanqingneiren。dakainidejihenxiaobenzi，jiluxialaitademeizheitiaozuixing。tadezuixingshibukeraoshude，bixuyaorangzishenyulaiyuhenta，fangandaoziyaliezui、daojinshiyucaixing。（jinguanfenshoudeyuanguyejianghuishizishen）jiaruneiyanghaibushufu，ninengzhaoxiexiangtongfangantadepenyouwomenyiqilaiwumieta，pidouta。dahuoerlunzhepengjineiren，batamachenghaowujiazhi。jinihaohaodixuanxieyixiaxiayuanhen，ninenghuranfajuefenshouhouneijianxiaoshiwojuedemeiyoushenme。

 cifangfagongxiao，shibangniyizhizaiqingxieyuannuxianxia，fajuelingyifangjingranzheibanbukanrumuzhishi，zhengliqixiangnianfugudeqingxu，chedipaokaiguanianyushebude。